We both like each other but i fear she'll leave me coz my family is backdated n not rich like hers.What 2 do?

Answer 1

if he loves you he has to do anythink to be with you

Answer 2

Well, I'd talk to her about this, and come right out and ask her, "Is this a big deal to you?". If it matters to her, then you need to move on now. Even if she says that it's not a big deal, that it doesn't matter, time has a way of making the truth come out. She can't hide it if it does matter to her.

So, in addition to asking her, I'd also say, take your time with this relationship, don't be in a hurry. By getting to know this person and her getting to know you, the odds of your relationship working out long term get better. You want someone to eventually marry you who knows you inside and out, who will love you in spite of any shortcomings you might have and so that there will no surprises down the road. The same goes for her. She needs to REALLY know you for it work out long term. The best way to do that is with time.

If your family's lack of money is a big deal to her, you need to walk away now, because it doesn't sound like the kind of woman that you'd want long term. I know that may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth.

Good luck!

Answer 3

If she leaves you because of your backdated and poor family, she might only like you and not really love you. In that case it is better for you to let her go. She on her part has the right to choose the man who can give her mental and material comfort in life. Try to find a woman who loves you inspite of the shortcomings you have stated.

Answer 4

If she leaves you for a reason like that and that alone, she is a shallow and very silly woman. You would be better off without her. What you can do now is hope that she is not that shallow silly woman. Part of relationships with people whether it be romantic, friendship or otherwise is risk. If you think this relationship is worth the risk of her oneday leaving you for a silly or even good reason, go ahead and jump.

Answer 5

Money shouldn't matter. Someone who would leave you over money or material things isn't worth being with in the first place. If she likes you, it's probably for who you are. Just keep things going the way they are, and if it's never an issue, great! If it becomes one with her, you're better off being with someone who values more important things in life like love and happiness.

Answer 6

if this girl cant accept u 4 ur u and ur family she sounds like a real piece of work. I dont think she will leave u 4 ur family. a girl like a guy 4 who they r not wether they can aford nice gifts 4 them or not!!! and anyway hugs and kisses can make up 4 all of that!!!

Answer 7

like or love? if she just likes u, ur fear is appropriate, but take my word - if she loves u she wont no matter how much difficulties r made to suffer in her life. make sure that u support her and as far as possible dont try to impose ur backgrounds on her. just make her believe that these r rituals and if she obeys it wud b gud for all.
i wish u all the best.

Answer 8

Like n love is two different feelings . First of all u should discover weither u ppl like or love each other???
If it is love then trust me d issues u r having r very small n minor n front of a true love.

Answer 9

Ask her. If that is the case then leave her. When family status and money comes in the relationship equation, it will yield very bad results.

Answer 10

move on buddy and get a girl who is also backdated like u

Answer 11

she wont if she loves you, if she does shes probly to shallow for you, be proud of your family, thats way cooler than being rich