Can Anyone Think of a reason why a married woman would stay out til 4 or 5 am?

Question

Trying to prove a point here

Answer 1

She was having to much fun. She made a choice, to stay out till 4 or 5 A.M.. Hanging out with the girls, lost track of time, got caught up in the moment. Inappropriate behavior for a married individual. We are all human and capable of error. God bless****

Answer 2

Married women shouldn't be out until 4 or 5 AM. Plain and simple. What is there to do at 4 or 5 AM? No female hangs out at their friends house that late. At least I never have, even before I was married.

Answer 3

I have a feeling you will prove your point. What most of these answers won't consider is there are many reasons a man or a woman would stay out till the wee hours. What they are doing and why depends a lot on the person, not their gender. Both sexes could have perfectly innocent reasons for being out all hours and both could have ill intentions. It rests on a persons character and track record.

Answer 4

Depends. Is it work related? I have to stay out late like that for work sometimes(i'm a union organizer, not a stripper) Is she out with girlfriends? If the the point you're trying to prove is that it's not normal, your right; unless there is some circumstance, it's not normal. But, there needs to be trust. Until you or someone you know catches her in a lie, you really need to trust her. Or hire a private investigator. Call Cheaters!!!(kidding)

Answer 5

Two points actually, but need concrete evidence as assuming is judgmental.

1) she is a grown woman and don't need to have a curfew to be at home. Could be bored or having fun with friends. I don't agree with 4 or 5 in the morning, but I am just one of the millions of females out there who vary in opinion.

2) She is married and if she is hiding what she is doing, or if she is partying and this is often, then yes, it is time to break out that investigation and get the evidence of why plus the reasons.

Answer 6

The same reasons men claim to staying out until that time! Hanging with friends,lost track of the time etc. whats good for a man should be the same for a women.

Answer 7

Well all the woman think its OK but if it was a guy staying out till then they would be telling you to get a divorce . Woman are so 2 faced in here its unreal. Do you know whats going to happen to all you woman thinking your a man? The same thing that happened to my ex playing the I'm better then a man game ,She is paying me child support she works her butt off skinny as a bone because she cant make enough money to make ends meat she looks like hell aging 10 years to my 1 trying to make it out there .No decent guy wants her because she owes child support for the next 12 years so i hope your all proud of yourself for putting ignorant thoughts in woman's heads I'm sure she would thank you .

Answer 8

Maybe she doesn't get out too often and just wanted it to last as long as possible.

I have stayed out that late just chatting with a friend. You know, girls can gab! Sometimes we just don't get to share our girl thoughts and emotions enough so we get carried away without even noticing the time!

If the marriage is doing great then there's nothing to worry about. Otherwise...my last suggestion is that maybe she met a guy and they decided to talk for awhile and it just went on and on until she realized how late it was.

Or maybe she was just straight cheating!!! That's what you're really worried about, isn't it???

Answer 9

Maybe she is cheating. Or maybe her car broke down in the middle of nowhere, and there is no cell signal. Or maybe one of her girlfriends is having a major crisis and she is trying to support her. Or maybe she went out with friends, drank a little too much and passed out on their couch.

Or, you know, you could ask her.

By the way, for those who say that all women would ask for a divorce if their husband stayed out late: My fiancee occasionally stays out with his friends a lot longer than he originally said he would. And it is just fine, because I TRUST him, and I know that a lot of times it is safer to sleep over at someone's house then to drive home too late.

Answer 10

Well, I can think of several reasons. She was having a great time with friends and didnt want to come home. She had too much to drink, so had to sober up. She missed her bus. The car broke down. She was hijacked at gunpoint. Her friend was depressed and needed someone to talk to. She was seduced.....take your pick....any of them are possible.