He's barely an ex. We "dated" 2 weeks before realizing it wasn't working out. He broke up with me first, but if he hadn't, I swear I was going to.
We're friends with all the same people, so we've ended up in the same place a few times since the break-up. I've been completely over him since the moment it was over, and I don't doubt that he's over me as well. And yet, every time we end up in the same place, he leaves because of me. We have a class together, and he purposely ignores me the whole time. And, 2 months later, he still has me blocked on instant messenger.
I have not harassed him or given him any reason to think he needs to block me. The most contact we've had is an e-mail I sent him 2 weeks after our break-up letting him know I don't hate him, or even dislike him, and I'd like it if we could be on good terms for when we see each other in the future.
I'm friends with ALL my exes but him. Why can't we be friends? What can I do to try and get him to be comfortable around me?
2007-04-06 20:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he may be feeling guilty about something. Hence, avoiding you. Perhaps, he cheated or talked smack and he's afraid you'll find out and smack him. Or he still has a thing for you. Either way, it's rude for someone to purposely ignore someone so leave it alone. Talk to the other friends who are there.
2007-04-06 20:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by M & M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it. How close were you two before you "dated"? Were you really good friends? When good friends like that decide to take their relationship to the next level and then it turns out that level wasn't working out, it feels awkward because your friendship isn't the same. That's the problem with dating a guy friend. If you break up with him, your friendship won't ever be the same. Even if this guy was talking to you, it would still feel a little weird. Just give this guy some space and don't worry about him. He'll get over his issues sooner or later. Good luck! =]
2007-04-07 03:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has to deal with his feelings first. Let it be for now. He may not know how to be friends, and he may still be a bit confused about the situation. These kinds of feelings are complex, and not everyone is mature enough to do that. Just look at all the terrible breakups in the adult world. Our feelings can be very intense, and our expectations very unrealistic, so the best way to be friends may to essentially ignore him. He may also think you are using this friendship to cling to him; possessiveness is very common. Good luck.
2007-04-07 03:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, I went trough the same thing that you. I was with this guy for 2 weeks, and I told him it was over. We had the same friends and everything, and when he sees me, he just ignores me. Or he just puts his head down. Ive seen him a couple of times, were I am, and he pretends im not there. Well, I think you should just do the same he does to you. Ignore him. When he realizes that your not paying attention, or just don't care about him, then maybe he might start talking to you. But other than that I don't think theirs nothing you could do.
2007-04-07 03:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jazmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has something to hate you for or he just does that to all his ex's. Dont chase him and try to be friends if he wont budge.
2007-04-07 03:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by kw78220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to google...type in "al gore" go to the image part...hit search..then look at the images of al gore..and droll....
2007-04-07 03:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to get or mek sum1 comfortable around u ..its naturally so dont force it....
2007-04-07 03:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by viola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋