Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

my friend and i were great. hes been through some losses (a dad who was shot dead and a mom who left him all at the age of 7) and we were always there for each other. any guy who broke my heart, my friend was there to break him. he soon started acting weird, saying i was "annoying" and he knew a lot of things about me he didnt like. I backed down , gave him his time and soon it was ALMOST normal. then this really hotguy that i like got interested in me and started saying perverted and rude things. when my friend found out, he blew up and started yelling at that guy. heres my mistake: i told him to stop. i told him to chill and i would handle it and that was the end of our friendship. he said "u liked it it made u feel special" and almost ignored me completely. then one day, i find out he has a girlfriend!! he didnt even tell me!!!!! now its almost normal, but i know itll never be the same again. what should i do?

2007-04-09 17:27:31 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

I Do Not Want To Say No But I Have A Whole Life Ahead Of Me... And I Have No Time To Be Tied Down... But I Am Love And I Wanna Make Him Happy But At The Same Time I Wanna Say What Means The Most Inside my Heart!! What Do I Do?? I Don't Want To Disapoint Him Any At All.. He Might Be A Lil Upset At Me... And He Is Already Talking About Kids.. He Is Going To Fast... He Needs To Put A Hold On Everything And Think... I Mean I Love To Do Things With him... Go To The Park.. Go Out To Eat.. Vacation!! I Don't Know!!
And He Was Talking About Going To The Beach!! And He Was Going To Ask Me While We Was Walking On The Beach.. But He Said That He Could Not Wait Any Longer.. And I Was Thinking In My Mind.. I Could Wait A Few More Months Or YEARS!!

2007-04-09 17:21:05 · 8 answers · asked by Animal Cracker 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 17:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my mom that I have set bounderies so many times and she can't see it. Now she can't be a big part of my or my kids ife anymore because I am done with that. I am moving on to healthy things in my life. I told her that SHE can't see my bounderies. SHE can't accept my limits. SHE can't respect the way I parent my kids. SHE wants to change my kids. SHE knows what my kids need. SHE made this situation. She called me back to say 'I dont' get to blame her'.... I don't get it. If she could see or respect my bounderies.. we wouldn't be here.. how is it my fault? I think my saying that SHE made this situation is accurate.

2007-04-09 17:20:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am going to turn 20 later on this year, i am finishing my first year in college and every thing if going great. But seriously I have never been kissed by a boy/man/ what ever... the male gender, and as you can assume i have not had a bf (ever)or been on a date or any of the other stuff you can think of. .. Do you the people of the web think this is weird.
I know i am not gay,(for some people have said that for my lack of a male companion ) I have guy friends and girl friends, and i feel comfortable were i am now, it doesn't both me. I was born without a dude i can die with out one. But most of the people who find out that i have never had a bf of been kissed at my age think its pretty weird. Whats your opinion? and why do you think this? Please only serious answers.

2007-04-09 17:18:54 · 6 answers · asked by quileter 2 in Singles & Dating

I got invited to my cusins bridal shower, but not to her wedding. I think It was rude. The impression I'm getting is she just wants my gift but doesn't want me at the wedding. They claim it was bacause they were having a small wedding.

2007-04-09 17:11:25 · 30 answers · asked by pinkfurshop 2 in Weddings

My soon to be wife is not a virgin, we saved sex for the honeymoon, and I told her I had sex before, what should I do?

2007-04-09 17:07:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I gave my phone number to this guy, i have never done that before...And i would not have done it if i was not 100% sure that he likes me (constant flirting with me, stares, smiles blushes a lot, teases, gave me flowers, hugs whenever he gets a chance...you get the picture). OK, he is very friendly but does not act that way with everybody else...Anyway, he has not called yet. It has been 2 weeks and i have seen him twice since. And he is still flirting...I just want to know what to do next? Why hasn't he called yet ?

2007-04-09 16:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by sillygirl 3 in Singles & Dating

It's no only with men it's friends, school, family, and myself. i don't understand it i know i have good friends, i'm smart, my family loves me. but i feel like i'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop and the life that i'm living will get ruined some how. i don't understand why i can't stop the thoughts that every dicision that i make is wrong and at some point i'll be penalilzed and everything will just disapear. i need ideas or something this is ruining mylife.
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2007-04-09 16:56:00 · 1 answers · asked by lovlyll 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm by no means gay and 16 and female but all of a sudden one day while sitting with my friend at lunch she asks if I was gay because I never talk about guys. I am not a really open person and I hate to talk about my feelings but yet how does that me make gay? Why would someone especially my friend be so inconsiderate? I was so shocked by the fact she thinks I'm gay that it made speechless. Despite the whole ordeal I still talk to her but I don't know if I should continue be her friend. What do you think?

2007-04-09 16:55:38 · 27 answers · asked by MKS 2 in Friends

Ok girls is it just me or are you floored by how many nancy-boys there are out there whining about "should I ask her out" blah blah blah. It KILLS me! We women and young ladies have to do SO MUCH WORK in the relationship and ALL the man has to do is ask us out and plan a few nice dates. I mean, give me a break!!!! QUIT WHINING, MAN UP AND JUST ASK!

Ok I feel better.. LOL

2007-04-09 16:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Singles & Dating

ok does every single person at the wedding get a favor for instance couples do i give 2 favors, family of five do they all get a favor? teenagers? not trying to be cheap just wasnt sure how many favors to buy i have 130 guest help

2007-04-09 16:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because they used to be very attached b4 i started dating her and he got really mad at her and tosay she said "WELL HOW DO YOU THINK HE FEELS I GAVE UP MY TIME TO YOU, YOU MADE ME LOOSE MY BEST FRIEND!!!" so i got upset and when he saw us fightin he got really happy about it, she has broken up with me twice to please him when we we first started dating, now he's coming back arround all upset, how do i handle this one??? i'm affraid of a 3rd break up because she cares about him alot and she says im number one, if you see her phone and her myspace its all about him they are full with pictures of him and she sometimes blows me off to go to his house, what do i do???? do i let her go???

2007-04-09 16:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by lil_weezy20006 2 in Singles & Dating

We moved in too soon. We have only been together a few months. Ever since we found out that she was pregnant she has just been really irritable towards me. i try to be nice and sweet. When i am, she reacts meanly so i respond with the same thing. I dont know if its another guy. Ill be damned if shes sleeping with another guy while she is pregnant with my child.

2007-04-09 16:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by patsfanmartin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 16:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by sankaranarayanan v 1 in Weddings

Iv been with him for 3 months.I LOVE him but he doesnt trust me at all.He always thinks that im cheating on him.its driving me crazy. i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt him.

2007-04-09 16:29:58 · 19 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently living with my bf, he has been separated from his (wife) for about 9mo. How can i get him to understand that he doesnt need a joint account or cell bills with her! They have separate households obviously. and he's always broke for that same reason. I've almost given up hope on him ever getting divorced and for it not to affect our relationship.

2007-04-09 16:29:58 · 25 answers · asked by Chayis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, Im a 21 year old guy. I always get jealous when im goin out with a girl i really like. I get real possessive and have lost relationships because of it. I know its natural to be like this a litte when you really like someone but its stupid because I feel like i cant control it. Its all i think about. When I see her talking to another guy that she might be attracted to i just wanna pound the guy's face in. I can honestly say i dont want to be like this. Also it usually has nothing to do with what kind of a girl she is. She could be a completely trustworthy woman and i would still be like that. Its like its just a feeling i have no control over. I tell myself constantly to stop worrying about it and that everything is fine but its like a feeling that wont release. Any advice? (please dont tell me to just relax or something, ive tried it)

2007-04-09 16:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Dan7 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 16:15:16 · 19 answers · asked by GRANT G 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a newmom and we are baptizing our little girl in May. I am not sure of the process. Who do I invite? Just immediate family members (both grandparents, the godparents, uncle and aunts)? Is everyone suppose to attend church with us before the baptism? Am I obligated to host a small gathering afterwards or is going to a resturant good enough?

2007-04-09 16:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-09 16:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hear all the times people say "looks don't matter". i really belive they do. If 2 guy's approach a girl in the exact same way and one is just average and the other is considered "attractive" then the results will be different, even if they are equally nice, confident, polite, etc... i know coming from a guy. this is not to be shallow but if you're going to spend a lot of time with someone then they have to be appealing. I think the term "shallow" is way too overused when refering to guys. It is not shallow to want to date someone who is good-looking, and most people have something about them that is attractive. Looks is what captures the eye at first and subcontiously, i feel, all people feel that way no matter what they say. The first time you meet someone, you make a judgement in your head about their appearance without even noticing sometimes. After that first judgement though, it is ALL personality which captures the heart

This is just an opinion, guys/girls, your thoughts?

2007-04-09 16:00:07 · 27 answers · asked by Mikey P 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a young guy with a liking for female feet. "Fetish" is not the proper term since it is defined as being REQUIRED for any sexual arousal. Thats not the case for me, its just a liking. Anyways I have been deeply depressed & suicidal for years now. I am a great guy though and have been told by my male friends and female friends and girlfriends and I am not "gothic" or "emo", etc. (The depression is not 100% due to my liking for feet or even 10% for that matter) anyways I have always kept my liking of feet a secret with a select few of my girlfriends. I'm wondering if things might be any better if I was more open about it or if I'm right in keeping it a secret and how should I go about it if I should be open about it? I would like to hear honest, mature, well thought opinions and narrow minded and or immature users need not reply. Thanks in advance.

2007-04-09 15:59:54 · 3 answers · asked by The Timekeeper 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 15:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to hang out with him. He looks like fun.

2007-04-09 15:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-04-09 15:46:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 17 years old now, and I was 17 years then. About 7 months ago I went to visit my best friend in another country. I slept at her house.I was interested in one of her friends, we got along good.One night when my friend was out, I stayed at her house. This guy came to the door and asked if her brother was there, I said no. He went to his car, came back and ask me if I wanted to go ride. I said "ya ok" because I thought his friend(the boy i was into) was in the car aswell..(windows tinted) I went in the car and only him was there. He was kinda cute, anyways we went to his mom's place, both went to his room and talked/exchanged email addresses. you know friendly. Then he started kissing me, I was a virgin. he got on top of me and all that, I told him i didnt wanted to have sex.He said he wasnt tryin to. He"Slipped"it half way in, and i said "No stop" he said ok ill just let it "sit". I said "no please get off" he got off and acted all normal.The next day i felt so disgusted
Was I rape?

2007-04-09 15:45:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If I have SOLE LEGAL CUSTODY of my children, am I "required" to give the other parent an Itinerary of where we will be? He has very limited visitation rights

2007-04-09 15:44:17 · 12 answers · asked by Julie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you sleep in another room?

2007-04-09 15:43:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...I have a huge problem and I hope someone can help me.....I am getting married next July 2008 and I am Catholic and my husband to be is right now nothing. I am not a strict Catholic and all that bull and I just need my husband to be to get baptized. I have a protestant minister to baptize him quick so we have proof he's something but can we then get married on the beach? If he got baptized protestant we would most likely have a minister as the person doing the ceremony.......is it possible for a Catholic priest to do a beach ceremony especially when the groom isn't Catholic???
Please give me what you know! I'm having this beach wedding one way or another!

2007-04-09 15:40:24 · 21 answers · asked by blondierox4u 2 in Weddings