Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

is sex with the ex a bad thing??? can it lead to a relationship? and why would he still want to sleep with me?? he said he still wants to sleep with me even if he sleeps with other ppl....why is this??he said he will be careful with other ppl but not me(meaning protection)why is this. i dont get it

2007-04-09 01:21:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-09 01:16:22 · 15 answers · asked by littlemonstersx2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

our both family ready for our marriage now i want to know how i can marriage to her under law without any problem. i have to go in her counrty for get marriage to her or she come india and then we can marriage here in court ?

2007-04-09 01:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my two soon to be sister in laws are driving me off my friggin head!! Is it me or are they bitches. The first one was complaining about reletives staying at her fathers home for our wedding this fall, and she said to me, why don't they stay at your f****** house, they are here to see you, (they are not staying at her house so why do she care), now the second sister is a bridesmaid in our wedding and she complains about everything from buying a dress to help with the shower. Their dresses were only $100.00 and she won't pay her portion of the cost of the shower, it would not bother me but she agreed to but when it came time to pay she refused. Also, I picked up her shoes for the wedding and her little girls flower girl dress and she won't pay me back. Oh they are driving me nuts. Do you think they are being hard to get along with or am I just a sap.

2007-04-09 01:13:20 · 15 answers · asked by Bride2Be 1 in Weddings

alright my friend is getting smelt by this "friend" i love what should i do, becuz we both like her so should i tell him to get off my turf becuz he has a gf? or should i just drop her out and get someone new? I really like her so what do i do?(catch: she has a bf, BUT she said she was well intrested into me and my friend!)

2007-04-09 01:08:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sand M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 01:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by RUBY M 1 in Friends

Hi Friends,
When does women play a mind game in love? do they play before love or in love? they play only once or more? Please help me out, based on this, I need to analyse my personal issue.... .

2007-04-09 01:06:09 · 8 answers · asked by sri19832006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If we actually find our soulmate, Would you divorce your husband to be with the man who is your soulmate, and how would you go about doing it?

2007-04-09 01:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by honesty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend of 9 months & in love/want to plan rest of lives 2gether. I have a 2 year old son from previous relationship. I see him every 2 weeks for the day,never stays over or comes to our home. Problem is girlfriend cant accept him. She feels sick at the thought of sharing me. I cant even talk about him without her getting upset. I can see that she is going through hell over this and it is putting strain on us. She is a lovely person who explained it is against her culture/believes but is willing to meet him because she doesnt want to lose me & she was aware from day 1. I dont want to play families, I just want her to lose this pain every time he is brought up or in the future brought to meet her. I suggested she talk to a friend/councillor to help her see that my son will not harm us and it is normal in this country(she's Russian) to keep ties with kids from previous relations. I believe that she should accept him to enable us to be happy in the future. Can any one help me?

2007-04-09 01:03:20 · 22 answers · asked by NATH 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just want to one time bang my crush how do i make him want to bang me he is my friend and yes i know i sound like a slut but i really love this guy and i think if i bang him once i could get him out of my system

2007-04-09 00:56:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello my wife keeps yelling at me telling me she hates me and cant stand me. She says i do nothing and dont help her, that it was a mistake to marry me, that my kids hate me, that i dont make enough money and i should make more for her, that i cant tell her what to do because she doesnt want another dad. I cant show any emotions or talk to her because men that cry or get upset are a turn off to her. I love her to death and think about her all the time, she is my entire life. I dont know why she does this. I work 60 hours a week, I work after hours at home. I work all the time so we have money to enjoy ourselfs and live the life she wants. I gave her $50000 sports car and as much things as i can. I hate working all the time and wish i was with her. I dont go out at all or see my friends much anymore. I only pretty much work now. She seems to enjoy her friends more then me. She has been out with them 3 weeks in a row. Am i doing something wrong please help

2007-04-09 00:56:11 · 20 answers · asked by luke52181932 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im staying at my bfs and on friday he going to work for 4 hours so ill be alone in his house he has no internet and im a bit scared to walk round his house as i dont know his mum very well what can i do for 4 hours while he is out

2007-04-09 00:54:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I remove my watch and wedding ring when going to bed but my wife says she feels insulted that I am taking the ring off. Any thoughts on this?

2007-04-09 00:53:45 · 54 answers · asked by R G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a widower and has 2 kids that are 11 and 6. I love him and the kids very much and want to be with them for the rest of my life. We are also planning on having another baby after we are married. Everyone was fine with this until we got engaged, now his best friend (and best man at the wedding) is saying hes not sure if he will stand in the wedding cuz he doesn't know if he agrees with us getting married. This is very hurtful to my fiance and to myself as i thought that his best friend liked me. Does anyone else see a problem with us getting married and raising a family together?

2007-04-09 00:52:03 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Weddings

my boyfriends brother is going to iraq in nov.. i dont know how to comfort him! hes been in the army for a while now and comes home every couple of months but doesnt seem to spend much time with his family. i know they all care and love each other and i feel really bad about this but how do i show my bf that i care. i dont really know what to say.

2007-04-09 00:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He never asks for the things I just give the things to him..I gave him a Sony PSP & game and tolietries and snacks because he doing his mandatory military service (we are both in Asia/he is not an American) We are friends and I fell for him because he such a nice guy..he told me he could never be angry at me...before Y started to give him the things. But I can't think of anything else to give him...

2007-04-09 00:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by tapihsiang 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a cop right now and I make about 59,000 a year. My wife and I live comfortable and were not living check to check. But I got offered a job with a big personal security business over in L.A. I'll be making almost double what I make now and my wife thinks I should take that job. But how would I tell her that I don't want to leave and I like my job and what I do.

2007-04-09 00:48:31 · 8 answers · asked by chromer_05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

bachsbabygirl has been asking a question which i find very interesting, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Am7M_..l.jOlNjZkjN5a8_3sy6IX?qid=20070409042524AAQfzQ2&show=7#profile-info-904e2874e06327d281d3198d8fa5a459aa
however people seem to miss the point of the question.... but i am really interested in what people generally think. so i shall ask:

do you think it is wrong, immoral or nasty (as she put it), to try for the brother (lets call him y) of a guy who was on the verge of being your boyfriend (let's call him ), who you kissed 4 times after it doesn't workout. notwithstanding the fact that you liked y first.

2007-04-09 00:44:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was travelling by myself in your fantastic country...I would love to have a bhutanese girlfriend
Or even marry
We can stay 56 months in Bhutan and 6 in europe every year..money is no problem
Hope there are some free bhutan girls.;you are so sexy..
I m 38 but look 28 blond about 1m67 slim,
And I studied tantra and bhuddism and my job is musician

2007-04-09 00:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by beyonddeath 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I decided to get separated 2 weeks ago.We fight all the time and he refuses to try and get counseling,says he does not want to compromise with me on anything,wants everything to be his way and I should just go back to the states.He is in the Army and we had to move to Germany.Anyway,all this paperwork and clearing out of the house and stuff is going to take at least another several weeks,oh yeah and there is the car,the dogs, the plane tickets.Right now we just kinda ignore each other 24/7 and sleep in seperate beds.I feel like he has it easier than me because he has his coworkers to talk to,he goes to work,and then he comes home and is consumed by his World of Warcraft game.But like right now he is gone somewhere with his friend.What am I supposed to do?I am soooo bored and lonely,any ideas?I need to get out of the house,but I don't know where to go;if I were in the states I might see a movie or go to the mall, but I'm not.....any suggestions would be great. :(

2007-04-09 00:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She does everything for me and all I do is yell at her. I can't stand the fact she has everything I always wanted and NEVER gonner have?

2007-04-09 00:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by CC_Boobcock 2 in Family

i love my bf to pieces and coz its a LDR we dont see each other that much. but when we together he always got his arms round me and he doesnt know his own strength so he crushes my lungs alot. how can i tell him i dont want him holding me all the time especaially in public coz i find alot of people stare. he even did it when we was at the pool so i found it hard to swim. how can i tell him to give me space to breathe without hurting his feelings

2007-04-09 00:41:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-09 00:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by w@NEe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

any one has a clue?

2007-04-09 00:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

Just want to know what people think+ Im almost allways being sarcastic.

2007-04-09 00:36:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I like him (not sure if as a good friend or as something more) but I don't trust him. Sometimes he replies late (6hours late once, but sometimes i am at fault i replied his text late in the first place) to my text or doesn't call back till late. When he stops asking me for supper on friday night, I think he is avoiding me and irritated by my talk. We work in the same building and sometimes I feel like he could have been more friendly to me instead of just wave and grin.
Don't get the wrong idea I never bug him or irritate him or keeps calling him I only call when there is really something. He on the other hand text me for nothing out of the blue and he is always so enthusiastic on the phone and text. But he's stopped asking me for supper. I know he is busy now but I feel like there is something about myself that irritates him? Everytime he replies late I keep scrutinising my text to see if I said something wrong or stupid but mostly I don't think I did. Why? How do I stop?

2007-04-09 00:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by adrienne 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 00:32:53 · 3 answers · asked by delkkis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are going strong after a year and 4 months, and we chatted a LOT and knew quite a bit about each other...but could it have made for a better relationship if we let the friendship build before acting out on our attractions the first time we met in person?
Thanks!

2007-04-09 00:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the best thing your girl can do for you? my boyfriend is italian and i want to do something special!!!

2007-04-09 00:25:44 · 7 answers · asked by mrs freshness 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who had liked this guy., Anthony, but he was a bit aloof and she never got to know him.... she however at one point started to get to know his older brother (or thought she did), Raul. they went out twice and shared 4 kisses i think... she insists that they have never made out. recently she has been told that Raul though not a horribly bad person has a tendency to embellish things... often, especially sexual conquests. he admitted that he lies sometimes. the people also told her that he has said that he and my friend has had sex, he denies it. She decided that she won't see him anymore or pursue a relationship... that was three weeks ago... now she seems to want to try for Anthony again. i find that nasty... but i don't know what to tell her.

We are 17. Raul is 21 and Anthony 19.

2007-04-09 00:25:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating