Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

WE have a child together we ve been together 4 about 2 years and considering marriage

2007-04-09 02:50:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, where to start???
Ok, well there is this guy (it always starts this way lol). He is very cute and very sweet. But he's kind of pushy. But it's the kind of pushy I think that I need, and I know how to control it. Anyways, that's not the problem. See, we have been talking and everything for like a month. He knew I liked him (friends told on me) and I was still if-ee if he felt the same way. So one day on the phone I finally asked and he said he did like me. Well, we started making plans to meet (not something im too proud on [dont worry it wasnt anything too bad]). But everytime we went to meet, something stop us (the first time it was shyness, then it was never being able to meet and be alone). So, when he asked me to go further I was kind of timid. See we hadn't even kissed yet (only in my dreams lol) and he wanted to do all this other stuff. Well when he kept asking and I gave him my standered answer, he didnt get the hint.
hang on theres more...

2007-04-09 02:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by da best girl you kno!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

\Do guys like fat girls with big breasts or skinny girls with no-so-big breasts

2007-04-09 02:42:46 · 2 answers · asked by bball_foshoww 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a young man aged 31 and have been in a love relationship for 2 years with this girl who is 25, and i wonder if this relationship ever going to work, we have had sevaral fights right from the start because she likes to go out a lot with friends that i hardly know, and whenever she goes out the following morning i hear nusty things of her from the previous night, and to prove that i once went to a disco where she usually likes to go without my concern and found her in the company of another man and there were shocked to see me there, apart from that she has lied to me several times and we have broken up more than 10 times as i speak, my worry is, whenever this happens i am the one going after her and never the opposite, does this mean i am so stuped to notice that this not going any further? To add to that nobody from my side likes her be it my family, my friends and they have told me several times to find a better girl but i am so resistant to that. What can i do?

2007-04-09 02:39:31 · 20 answers · asked by Ezequiel M 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner is Jamie (can't remember the number after it)
I often find questions on here about him saying he loves older women ect ect (i'm 23) and recently he's be asking questions about this girl who he went on a date with (not me!). We had along talk last week and he promised no more lies and that he didn't fancy this other girl and nothing more has happened. We have been together for 2yrs. Everytime i ask him to leave he gets upset and says he loves me and i'm the best thing for him. So why does he keep doing this?????

2007-04-09 02:39:12 · 21 answers · asked by x Jay Jay x 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, this guy i know is older than me, like i'm 17, hes 23 kind of older. He has some bad **** in his past and a kid, twins actually. But ever since I met him almost a year ago, hes been nothing but cool. He helped me alot, like me getting over being raped by my ex, and just finding out two of my grandparents have terminal cancer. hes been by my side through my mom and her boyfriend and all their stupid fights that put holes in our walls. We were friends up until a month ago and now he wants to get serious. I love him, I just dont know if I should. My older sister tells me to drop him, kids and background baggage are never good. But what about HIM? I just don't feel right dropping him, not only because I love him, but because I think he needs a good influence and someone who cares right now. I wanna be there for him. COULD IT WORK???!!!

2007-04-09 02:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by supermnluvr 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and we have a 1 yr old son. It hasn't been the greatest 2 yrs but they say the first 5 are tough. I really think that a divorce is in the near future. We know that it only cost $30.00 at Staples but how do you decide on who gets what. Everything that we practically own we bought together. Also, I'm not sure if financially it would be better for us to get a divorce or just seperate. Anyone that has been is a situation like this your advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2007-04-09 02:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by babe112083 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy who i really like asked me out , but my parents won't let me date , what should i tell him !!? ( btw i'm 15 )

2007-04-09 02:37:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My separated wife is falsely alleging that I've hit her four times in four months with a month gap between the hitting. We did have arguments. I am much thinner in built than her. What should I do? Initially I wanted her to come back but now I'm remaining quiet.

2007-04-09 02:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by Darik Smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont care about those persons who cares about me and love me. why i dont love that person who love me a lot?

2007-04-09 02:32:31 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i get mixed signals all the time. i do behave like a muslim. no pork, prayer, no going out. no drinking, and basically like his wife. all his friends know about me. also his brother. its just his mum he doesnt wanna hurt. my kids love him and he loves them too. he lives here for gods sake! i always put my kids first, but im allowed to be happy too. his mum is not modern, very traditional. pitty she didnt meet with an accident. lol. ooops sorry shouldnt say that.

2007-04-09 02:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out yesterday that my husband of 15 years sleeped with my sister a friend of his told me, I am so sick to my stomach i dont know what to do.Can anybody give me some advice.Thank you.

2007-04-09 02:28:29 · 19 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I have been going out with this boy for a month and some days. When we first hooked up two days later he got sent to jail, I wrote him six letters and he wrote me two,because of he had to wait until he recieved more stamps. Then when he got out I was with him also. Then maybe two-weeks later he got sent to the hospital. I was worried so the next day I stayed with him for three-hours. While he was sleep just to make sure that he was okay. Now he have a job. He dont call me at all,but every blue moon. When I call his house his auntie say that he is either gone or asleep. I dont want to chase after him but I need to know what happen. Did I do something wrong. He also get mad because he want me to let him borrow my cell phone. but i cant and exspecially on a weekday. I mean i care for him alot and I love his mom. She's really sweet. My sisters saw a girl sitting in between his legs one day while they was riding by.I also think it is because Im a virgin.I told him that.Im so confused!

2007-04-09 02:25:02 · 10 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

ok here whats going on, me and my girlfriend broke up 3weeks ago, for the first week she was bitterly mad at me (she borke up with me by the way) for the way i acted about , then a after that week we started talking again and she told me that she wants to be with me but know i need time to get my anger under some type of control. i started therapy and all that, as we started talking more and more, she told me shes not intrested in anyone else and just wanted me but until im ready she wants to be friends with benefits who dont mess around with anyone else, so i said ok because i love her more than my own self and i want to be with, this is not the first time we broke up in fact its about the 6th time and we always break up because we start to agrue 2muc 4a period of time. so we have bein talking on the phone and all that until saturday when my new car broke down she drove by and saw me and asked me if iwanted her to come back and help me i said sure, but me and my friends got it moving

2007-04-09 02:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by jake k 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 02:07:10 · 40 answers · asked by STeveo 2 in Singles & Dating

For a little more than a month, I have been involved with a woman who I am a bit unhappy with for a few reasons. First, her home is a complete mess, unclean/filthy or whatever you want to call it, and second, her children (two of them, both girls) have discipline issues. Third, she sometimes carries on when she cannot have her way. I've expressed my displeasure with her about these matters, but [to me] it seems like she's not "getting it"? What should I do?

2007-04-09 02:04:20 · 29 answers · asked by Madly In Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I roll over and give her, her ways or do I fight to keep things together. Things could out to turn out better. You know they say, if you want something bad. shoot for it, But what should I do,,,now she is starting to treat me like dirt now....

2007-04-09 02:03:02 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was divorced 4 months ago because my ex-husband is a compulsive liar and committed adultry on several occasions and I didn't want my son to grow up in that environment. I am trying very hard to follow the visitation schedule and not deviate from it because if you give this man an inch he will take a mile. It is very difficult for me to trust him and when he asks to extend his weekend with our son, I tell him "no". He and his parents think that I am trying to "keep our son from them", which is ridiculous. I am only trying to stay firm and consistent with the schedule. Is that so wrong? My ex's family is 7 hours away and I am getting told that I have disappointed their entire family because I didn't let our son stay over an extra night. How do I deal with this?

2007-04-09 01:56:13 · 21 answers · asked by Jenny K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you try to work it out,leave,get even and get on with life with her,can you just throw away 10 years over 1 mistake,do you kick the guys butt

2007-04-09 01:55:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you feel like giving up. what keeps you going? it doesn't have to be about anything in specific just when you feel like you have put your all into something and nothing works out what makes you keep trying? any answers would be appreciated just nothing rude. thanks! :)

2007-04-09 01:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 01:43:53 · 19 answers · asked by samiksha s 1 in Friends

she is still living in my house and the divorce papers haven't been filed yet.

2007-04-09 01:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by pete s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine who I've known for 7 years (we see eachother every other month) seems to take pleasure in making me feel uncomfortable. Recently, she's started this sort of emotional blackmail. She's been holding onto a very unbecoming picture of me, and whenever our friends/boyfriends get together, she describes how bad the picture is, makes fun of me, and threatens to bring it out to show everyone.
So then I of course have to beg her not to. I think she gets off on having some kind of power over me. I'm getting really tired of it. Last time, I felt like telling her to get the picture just so I could grab it from her and rip it up, but that would make me as childish as she. Jokingly, I told her (in front of everyone) that I had a bad picture of her as well, and she gave me a death stare. I'm really angry.
Any suggestions?

2007-04-09 01:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by Kaydee 3 in Friends

i want to know if there is any way a female can make u change your mind about them to where you would be intersted in them if you were, like right now your friends how could a female make you change your mind and make you want them for more?

2007-04-09 01:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-09 01:33:04 · 13 answers · asked by munchu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi,

I am married lady,25 yrs. working woman , CA.I am only child.
My inlaws are very social and kind of joint family. I find difficult to stay with them as mother in law's mentality is like housewife . she keeps herself occupied in household corus. Half of the time some or other relative is there at home. Even on holidays we cann't schedule our programme as most of the time relatives are at home. I dont get rest or feel like at my home. I spend very less to save for future ,however i feel they r spending lot. what to do? my hubby is not ready for separation and i find difficult to stay with them. what to do?
my hubby is kind of sidasad. he says time is only remedy for all the problem. I have married since last 4 years. My mother in law is not bad at all, but as I told I am working and that too C.A. , so need to spend more time on profession and she is homely purely housewife type. She doesn't understand need to stay home peacefully on weekend. I am planning for child next year.

2007-04-09 01:29:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-09 01:29:09 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

When my status is unmarried females are trying to catch me but when i changed my status married they dont want to even talk to me. When i dont want to mixup my family life and personal outer life.

2007-04-09 01:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by aapkekhatir_3010 1 in Singles & Dating

the person im inlove with has now decided they dont love me anymore and it really hurts and they keep doing and saying things that hurt me.. n i kst dnt want it to hurt anymore .. n idk wht to do..

2007-04-09 01:25:24 · 14 answers · asked by hot, sweet n aussie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What if you were the girl I was lusting on? Would you want more after I conquered you or was that one time enough for you? Has this ever happened to anybody and how do you know if it is lust or love?

2007-04-09 01:24:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating