she is still living in my house and the divorce papers haven't been filed yet.
2007-04-09 01:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by pete s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I find it very unusual that you are getting a divorce and living under the same roof.
That is like rubbing salt into a wound.
What she is doing is very legal but very inconsiderate of her at this point.
I am wondering if your marriage wasn't over a long time ago and she was on the pursuit of something new before you filed for divorce.
I Can not fathom someone wanting to stay under the same roof when this is happening.
I think this is a ploy to hurt you even more and she is showing her disrespect towards you.
if there is an alternative to living conditions then I would certainly go that route.
if you are waiting to sell the house, then I feel for you.. I hope it gets sold tomorrow , so you can remove yourself from this terrible situation.
2007-04-09 01:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's legal. It's legal even if you two were married still, or still have been together, doing well. Unfortunetely, there is nothing you can do. It looks to me like she has moved on, and is ready to jump into something new, something fresh. The moment that the two of you have made the decision to split up, that's when she is free to date whomever she wants and to do whatever she wants. You can't do anything about it. But don't worry, she isn't doing this to make you angry or hurt you. It's probably the best way she knows how to get over you quickly! So, you should start doing the same!
2007-04-09 08:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is legal but you maybe able to use this in court since she is stilling living in your house and the papers have not been found. If she wants to divorce and date tell her to move out.
2007-04-09 08:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pete it has nothing to do with being legal or illegal. She's trying to get ready for her new life when the divorce becomes final, and I think she's trying to make you jealous. Talk to her and ask her what in a world she's trying to do, or trying to convince you that she doesn't care anymore. don't let her get to you or even ruined your life. Excuse my language but she's trying to be like a wh##e by doing that, so sorry!!
2007-04-09 09:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it an issue? She has already made it clear she doesn't want to be with you via divorce.
Do you expect to be jealous once the divorce is final and she's dating others? You need to let go.
2007-04-09 08:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, Whats the point. What are you doing.? Sell the house, get outa town, start somewhere else. Go go ..
2007-04-09 08:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
legal? yes
ethical or moral? no
file for those papers. today!
2007-04-09 09:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are getting DIVORCED she can do what she want
move on
2007-04-09 08:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So;
Restrict her from using the computer, or block those kind of sites using t00ls/internet options...security.
2007-04-09 08:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, unfortunately it is legal. Is it morally correct, absolutely not.
2007-04-09 08:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋