My parents won't let me date !?

Question

a guy who i really like asked me out , but my parents won't let me date , what should i tell him !!? ( btw i'm 15 )

Answer 1

What your parents don't know won't hurt them. All they really want is for you to do well in school and keep your legs closed.

Answer 2

You have to respect your parents decision. Are they waiting until you are 16? Is it a religious thing? If they are just waiting until you are a little older, you need to talk to them about what would be okay. They might allow study dates, or a date where they drop you off and pick you up or go out in a group setting. Talking to them instead of sneaking around shows the proper level of maturity. I hope they will be reasonable.
If not, you'll just have to tell him that your parents won't let you date, yet and hopefully, he'll like you enough to be content with seeing you at social functions until you can say yes.

Answer 3

The truth! Why lie? I didn't let my daughter date until she was 16. She hated my guts for that rule but she also thanked me. Some guy she DIDN'T like asked her out when she was 16 and she used my parents don't let me date for an excuse! Parents just want to protect you!

Answer 4

Honestly, just wait, i know it's not like you're going to do anything inappropriate for your age. I get that. And you just want to be able to date and grow as a teenager. If you rea-lly feel your mature and ready to date then i suggest you sit your parents down, and explain to them that you respect their rules and just want to be able to date and that if new rules have to be set, maybe a curfew for ex. then you are willing to respect that. Talk it out, explain your reasons but be sure this is rea-lly what your ready for. Get to know a guy first, build a friendship and make sure he's worth the time and attention you're going to give him. Don't rush any-thing! Things will fall into place, you'll see, dating, boyfriends, parties, etc.

Answer 5

Your parent is caring about you. One thing for sure - parents know what's best for their child. In your case, no need to tell the guy that your parent dont allow you to date but you can have other excuses if you wish, too busy for studying may be???

Answer 6

Be honest tell him that your parents think you are too young for dating but that you would like to be his friend. Include him in group activities with the rest of your friends. Do NOT sneak around and get caught dating him. It will not go well for either of you and certainly will only confirm to your parents that you're not responsible enough to date.

Answer 7

okay your 15? thats so not fair. maybe go on like a double date? if u have some of your friends with you maye she'll loosen up? if that doesn't work g et a group of ppl ( your friends..both guys and girls..his friends too.) go to the YMCA or skating or something... if there are more ppl then she might not feel as scared. she probably just doesn't want you to get hurt and doest want her "little girl" to grow up. maybe....just maybe..don't mention tat your crush will be there at wherever u are going...if u must. be as truthful as posssible though. make sure she can trust you. good luck!

Answer 8

Honey, your parents are only doing this to help you in the long run. You are way to young to be dating. Just enjoy your childhood. I know that there are alot of your girlfriends that are dating and doing god knows what else but listen to your parents. They are only doing what is best for you.

Answer 9

your parent is concern about you and they do care. So wait a little while, they will gradually let u date. For now, you are still young and best to concentrate in your studies.

Answer 10

tell him the truth.thats the only way.lying to him will just make things complicating.and if he dont like it then thats his problem.he's not worth it.and if he tells you to go out anyway with him without your parents knowing dont listen to him.your parents arent letting you date for a reason, cause youre too young and cause they dont want you to end up pregnant etc...