2007-04-09 02:07:10 · 40 answers · asked by STeveo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not as long as you look but don't touch!!
2007-04-09 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong to look at the opposite sex when you are married or in a relationship, just not while you are with you mate. If you are at the mall or a restaurant and your eyeing every female or if she's eyeing every male that walks by is extremely disrespectful. I can't stand that! It's not realistic to not knowtice the opposite sex or even the same sex if a person is attractive or is dressed well or smells good or some kind of way they got your attention. It's normal, but while you are in your mates presence is the worst. I think that if it's that serious you should not be in a relationship or married if you cannot, not disrespect your mate. I also think that going to strip clubs, looking a nudy mags and pornography is the ultimate level of disrespect and that a person has issues to decide to make that sort of commitment and turn around and do these things. So don't disrespect your mate and demand your respect also.
2007-04-09 02:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To look once is human... to look once again and have thoughts about that woman dancing around in your head is just wrong... If you are married you should be totally faithful to your wife! She does not deserve to be treated with disrespect
so, if you love your wife and want to be happy in your marriage, get over looking twice at any other woman ok!
Do you think you would be happy if your woman was always checking out other men? What's good for the goose... is good for the gander sometimes... no double standards ok!
2007-04-09 02:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you can look as long as you don't touch, flirt and take the numbers I know men is always going to look you just have to trust the fact you know right from wrong and not cheat and your wife has to understand that you are going to look cause it's human nature regardless, if your feeling guilty then your conscious is telling you not to look but it's not wrong unless you start wandering looking for relationships and good luck to you
2007-04-09 02:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO there's no harm in looking just don't touch lol women look @ other men to so whats the problem with us looking??? works both ways :P
2007-04-09 02:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by bandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not atal you would not be human if didnt find others attractive,i was married and i looked at men and he thought the same about women i did not mind as im not a jealous person in that respect,i think everyboby does this and if said they didnt they would be lying.xx
2007-04-09 02:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in looking at the menu when your on a diet. It should only become a problem when you trip over your tongue...lol
Women can spot a good looking woman a mile away thats why we can focus totally on your reaction...lol
And do you honestly think we don't look at good looking men, its human nature...
2007-04-09 02:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a bit of window shopping, just so long as you don't touch the goods or take it home!!
2007-04-09 03:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by misshoneybun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can stop you from looking, as long as you are content with what you have at home and do not want to explore further... saying that there are ways people can touch without touching if you know what i mean!! be sensible......
Do not follow the dream.... lock it away...
2007-04-09 02:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not - you didnt become blind when you married afterall - go on, enjoy the view but know what you have at home is the best - she must be, you chose her above all others!!!
2007-04-09 05:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your thoughts are when you are looking .
To look in itself is not a sin, because a person can hardly control what appears in a field of vision . LOL
2007-04-09 02:12:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋