Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

a while. (not cigarettes) I myself am very against this. I have caught him doing this a few times, and it makes me feel like he does not love me. we have been together for 14 years altogether. He did do this b4 we got married, and he said he would quit. I get very hurt every time it happens. i don't think its worth getting a divorce over, but i am not sure what to do.....

Any ideas??? when we get into a fight about it, he says he is sorry, and that he loves me and wants to be with me. I just don't understand. Othe than his he is great. (husband and father)

2007-04-09 04:50:06 · 18 answers · asked by Katie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am inviting a married couple, both are doctors. How do I word the invitation?

Would it be:
Dr. and Dr. Smith
The Drs. Smith
Dr. Jim and Dr. Jane Smith

Thanks for your help! This is the only one that kind of stumped me...

2007-04-09 04:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by duritzgirl4 5 in Weddings

Hello and thanks to all who answer. I've recently been accused of making phone calls to someone's home and they are false accusations that I received in a restraining order. First how can this person even prove that it was me? Second, wouldn't supplying my phone records be proof? This person is vindictive and will do anything to cause harm. They've made past threats that they'd be after me all the days of my life. Aside from other threats and problems with my computer, I feel like I'm being framed or better yet, lynched. I need some answers fast, as I've got to be in court in less then 2 wks. to fight these false charges.

2007-04-09 04:47:03 · 13 answers · asked by blue2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 6 mo. since my boyfriend and I began. During this time when good - VERY good, but the bad has gone from "we'll get through this" to him being a "depressed, out of work, semi homeless, indecisive bag of emotions". I have tried to be supportive and inspiring, listened to circles of emotions without judgement and only when asked have I offered my advice or opinion. I know that this is a good man who loves me and we want a future together. I'm just feeling latley that his turmoil is all consumming and he is only happiest when around HIS friend's or family. Even when it's just the two of us - he just seems to be "TRYING HARD" & not even faking it well.
Before I can tell him this - I am asking for your advice - 1) Does it sound like the right thing to do & 2) how do I tell him without shattering him - that because of all this, I now need space? I know that I am going to be near death to do this to myself let alone him in his vulnerable state. I do not want to break up...

2007-04-09 04:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband called me his "Show piece" and he can't understand why this upset me. He said it was a compliment.

2007-04-09 04:41:34 · 21 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been 2gether over one year before 2weeks he just left me i tried to call him no answer so i stopped called him one week now i just want to him back but dont know what i have to do?just want him back plz guys advice me how to back him what i should do?

2007-04-09 04:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by namuun g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Shoudl I proceed with verbal abuse or physical abuse? I heard that if I use oranges inside a pillow case it wont leave any marks? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

2007-04-09 04:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got back from afghanastan and Found out my wife had been cheating on me and had moved a guy into the houes. Why in hell do I want to stay with her.

2007-04-09 04:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by thedarkone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is cheating? Why do some women think the guy will be there for them when they were not for the chick they were already with are we as women really that desperate?

2007-04-09 04:37:57 · 1 answers · asked by misse 2 in Singles & Dating

My long-distance relationship with a guy always go on and off. I'm in Malaysia and he's in New York. We were okay and then he got drunk once and slept with his ex. He apologized but I insisted on splitting. Since then he became depressed. He wasn't doing good at all, his sis told me. And his mom was mad at me as she blamed me for making his son suffer. So after he begged me several times, I accepted him again. We were doing just great but lately he had been pushing me to have sex. I am against the idea of sex before marriage and he just couldn't wait. One day he called me and said he had met a girl that could make him happy. So we splitted. I was a total wreck after the break. I didn't know how he was doing.

Recently he called me and said he's depressed about the break up too and said he shouldn't have done it. He wants us to be back together again and he has dumped the girl. I was unsure after all that we've been through.

Please help me coz this involves his sanity too. Thanks!

2007-04-09 04:37:19 · 39 answers · asked by bloodyhoney 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bunch of 4 online friends (all friends with eachother) we meet up as often as possible so we are quite good friends and get on well. One of them is planning a trip to a theme park for all of us for her birthday then a night in a hotel then back to the park again before going home (shes been planning this with us since last august) well recently shes made some new friends and has decided to bump me for this new one shes got

second part of the situation is that after telling me she would like me not to go cos there isnt enough room in the hotel for 5 and she doesnt want to get another room for 1 person she comes back saying i can go cos shes now found 2 other people to go so doesnt mind getting another room

third part - she has told me that if she had to chose who didnt go between me and the rest shed want me not to go

my questions are:
is she a good friend?
shall i go?
what do you think of the situation?
what would you do?

2007-04-09 04:35:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Besides Church, where is the best place to meet a nice girl?

2007-04-09 04:35:07 · 1 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to have a fancy dinner at this restraunt that cost $150! This is a huge amount of money for me because I can't find steady work because I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and mask all the time. Anyway, after a few months of saving I had the money. I made a reservation and showed up for what I hoped would be the best dinner of my life! When I got there the host said I couldn't wear my costume! I told him if I wasn't served he would pay dearly but he still refused. I had no choice. I pulled out my space blaster (A BB-Gun) and shot him! I shot a lobster tank and it broke, spilling water and lobsters everywhere. Several waiters started running toward me so I sprinted around the tables, grabbing plates of food and throwing them on the customers and employees, also firing wildly into the crowds of people. Eventually some waiters tackled me and held me down until the police showed up and arrested me! Since it was their fault that this happened can I sue the restraunt for my legal fees?

2007-04-09 04:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by Be Intimate with Jar Jar Binks!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you use a condom on your first night?

2007-04-09 04:31:49 · 22 answers · asked by krsh28 2 in Weddings

Well, i am 18 year old and these days i feel kind off crap. i mean i really want a girl to confide into but don't know how? I know this kind of question here doesn't make semse but any way, anyone interested? Please don't start of with brickbats i'm serious!

2007-04-09 04:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

he took me to a movie and bought like hardely any pop corn and a small soda for us to share...and he never looked at me...

2007-04-09 04:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well This is my 3rd Question n its about the same boy...Im trying to let go of him but i cant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plz help me..im really hurt n dk wht to do!!

2007-04-09 04:24:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl tha i use 2 work with but not no more and we just start talkin again but the thing is back then she had a girl and i did to but now she single and im not im still with the same person but i was feeling her back then and still am right now and i love my girl wit all my heart tha like wify to me but sumtimes when i need her she ant there so tha why im feeling ooh girl bcuz she is there when i need her and she live real close 2 me and my girl live like an hour and a half away so tell me wat should i do

2007-04-09 04:21:52 · 1 answers · asked by SunShine 1 in Singles & Dating

...in the opposite or same sex for example athletic

2007-04-09 04:14:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 04:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...Do you have any tips for me for my first session of marriage counseling?

2007-04-09 04:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 04:11:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 04:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by Tabitha C 2 in Weddings

I am a stay at home mom for my 4 month old little girl. I am only 25 so I still consider myself young and since this situation is new it has been difficult transitioning. My husband is 29 and he works full time. We live with his parents while saving for a house of our own which makes the situation that much harder. My problem is this...I deal with all the problems and he acts like nothing has changed. He hardly ever helps with the baby and when I ask him to he grunts and groans about it. He leaves for work an hour early like before we had the baby so he can play baketball at his shop before work. He sits and watches an entire movie where I'm lucky to get in a half hour show. And worst of al, he's in bed by 8 every night while I am up with the baby until 10 because his family makes soo much noise she wont sleep until the noise stops. How would you feel about this? I just feel that I shouldnt be the only one whose entire life has changed since haivng a baby.

2007-04-09 04:06:25 · 30 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me your reasons why you suddenly stop talking to a girl when you're the one pursuing her? Everything was fine one night, then the next day no calls, texts or anything.

And, no, I am not calling him continually. I figured he just wants his space or something so I haven't tried getting a hold of him since the first day.

2007-04-09 04:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by karen 2 in Singles & Dating

hi im ______
(then she'lll introduce her self if not...)
whats your name ?

In my opinion a first date just after being "picked up" is awkward, wouldnt you agree ?
(if so) so would it be okay if i asked to you a second ?
(if not) care to try it out ?

please n thanks

2007-04-09 04:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I am mean because of two reasons because I am angry a lot of the time and because we had a rough start at the beginning of our marriage. I was to aspire to be nicer to everyone but I want to learn how to be nicer to my husband before I go around trying to forgive the world for having insolent morons sprinkled about it.

2007-04-09 04:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I couldn't handle it, she is remarried but still called my husband when she needed anything. My husband says they are friends. I know nothing sexual between them, but still couldn't deal with her being a part of our lives on a daily basis. We divorced because I couldn't deal with it, other than his relationship with ex we were pretty much perfect together, was I wrong? We still love each other and still "date"

2007-04-09 04:02:03 · 25 answers · asked by hi_stk_n 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my mates went missing for about 12 hrs and i went to look and see if i could find her i also asked a few of her m8s or people who know her to see if they have herd from her , i got told she was safe at home now i told the people that she was safe they said u should have left it , u should have done this and that , do u think i done a bad thing

2007-04-09 04:00:54 · 18 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Friends

im not expecting to pay any money so tell me what kind of deals can we make

2007-04-09 03:59:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends