Tell me your reasons why you suddenly stop talking to a girl when you're the one pursuing her? Everything was fine one night, then the next day no calls, texts or anything.
And, no, I am not calling him continually. I figured he just wants his space or something so I haven't tried getting a hold of him since the first day.
2007-04-09 04:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by karen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Sometimes we screw up.
2) Maybe he was trying, but either gave up or was interested in someone else.
3) Maybe he's busy.
4) Maybe he's afraid he'll push you away or smother you.
5) If he is playing games (I'm not calling for the next two days), apparently they are working.
You haven't talked with him enough to know. Call him, wait for him to call--it's up to you--how bad do you want this guy?
2007-04-09 04:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well you saying "Why do you guys do this" is not an answerable question because every guy is different, though I believe that his behavior is irrational and you will have to just be patient and wait for him to come out of this rut. Sorry but there's not much you can do, especially if he won't respond, maybe ignore him and he will miss you and come back
2016-05-20 23:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me recently, I was talking to this one girl, and she was really interested in me, so i was nice to her texted and all that good stuff. But suddenly I stopped talking to her, because i lost interest. But i guess if she was REALLY interested in me, then it could of worked both ways.
2007-04-09 04:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Troy Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually because the girl has gotten on my last nerve. Most girls look good but have nothing after the looks. They talk too much about nothing, always worry about their looks and make up and other girls, shopping, yata, yata, and stuff.
2007-04-09 04:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a gurl but guys do that i have had it happen it me alot! either ur annoying them or jus bugging them too much n not giving them that space but if he cares he will kall you n a few days or something.
2007-04-09 04:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One day? Guys don't think like you do. One day is nothing to us. Heck, one week doesn't mean much. If he doesn't contact you after ten days, THEN I'd worry.
2007-04-09 04:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Skippy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a handle on it. I hope he didn't have a blast from the past right when it looked like he was going to move on....
2007-04-09 04:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put out on the first date, there's not much left to go after.
plus, maybe he wants to take it slow?
2007-04-09 04:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karen this is a great question I would like to know this answer myself.
2007-04-09 04:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes we see a girl we like and then...
2007-04-09 04:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ben R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋