Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

sexually whenever you wanted it? (I'm not in any way implying cheating is right for any reason...just curious.)

I wonder how many would-be cheats would rather just be home with a wife who was sweet and accommodating rather than out finding another woman to cheat with.

2007-04-09 03:58:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 03:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just had the most incredible experience with a married man. I am single and he was married. Unlike all of the single guys I have been with which has been disappointing this married man treated me and took me places I thought unattainable. He has pursued for months and months and finally I figured what the hell and we did the did. My question is are married better because of their experience and practice?

2007-04-09 03:51:28 · 31 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thoughts on the grandparents? What would you do if a family member molested your child? Second chances?

2007-04-09 03:48:39 · 8 answers · asked by Linnygirl 5 in Family

2007-04-09 03:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just turned 19 and about to enter college. I also already have a part time job near my university. Me and my boyfriend of 6 years are talking about marriage he is the same age and we are going to the same university. i dont know if its to early. HELP! I love him and he loves me but people think we are to young and should wait till im done with college. but on the other hand we are both christians so we havent had sex before and were waiting till we get married so its not like were trying to get married so early because im pregnant

2007-04-09 03:43:38 · 60 answers · asked by jcmikayla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl that I used to talk to at a bank. She was always real nice and liked to flirt a lot. However, when she saw my vehicle (15 year old beat up truck), she lost intetest real quick. Well, after I pulled up to the bank window in my other car (2007 BMW M6), now all of the sudden she wants to get to know me again. She is now telling me about her availability and is hinting that she would like for me to take here out. Whats the deal? What is worse, it seems to me that I am meeting more and more girls like this. Are girls that are 20-25 and hot all gold-diggers?

2007-04-09 03:41:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he signed the paper work for it and it was in hes name .some how it is in my name .i do not sign anything .how can that be

2007-04-09 03:41:13 · 5 answers · asked by bobbie w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do anyone think that we can find true love in chat rooms?

2007-04-09 03:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by kath m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but, you tried to make the things and it didn't ...!!

2007-04-09 03:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I try this?
I had the worse situation of my life.. I met a guy that was exactly the man that i always prayed for and he was so into me.. but i messed it up because i was going through alot..

1)i was being abstiant for 3 years before we had sex and i never told him.. so the next time i tried i said no with no explaination... he still wanted to date me even after that..

2) then i was a total b-to him because at the time when i met him, my close aunt was battling a terminal illness..

finally about 6 weeks ago he told me he couldn't take anymore of my crap.. a couple weeks later i tried to text him to explain/apoligize.. no response... i decided to let it go, but yesterday my aunt suddenly passed during a surgury and i'm thinking about how short life is, and how i want to try to be with him..

I have a friend that knows his normal patterns, should I try to show up where he is by "accident" and try once and for all to explain

2007-04-09 03:37:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been "separated" for 2 weeks and I was fed up and decided to just file after a really bad weekend. We got in a huge fight on suday.."Easter Sunday" and I didn't even go to church b/c I was afraid I would see him there or his family or anyone. Then he calls and leaves a message that his grandmother passed away while we were fighting. I feel aweful and should I wait to file the papers and how long and I feel like I should go to the funeral or viewing at least I just don't know where I will stand with his family. He is the one who ruined the relation by being abusive but I love his family. I'm just confused please help.

2007-04-09 03:35:19 · 20 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My guyfriend says he wants to see me naked........?
i said why. he said, he want to see me with no clothes on'' what does this mean?
i'm a girl. we are both 16.

2007-04-09 03:34:34 · 26 answers · asked by manoman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 27 and have been married for 3 years. We both have very well paid jobs and would be able to give any child the best of everything. Problem is I don't like children, never have never will and my husband knew that from the start. He told me he was more than willing to give up having children if it meant spending the rest of his life with me. We’ve taken every precaution possible short of doing something permanent which my doctor said was out of the question given my age and the fact that I haven’t had children, to make sure we don't get pregnant but here I am 6 weeks pregnant. I don't want this baby. It’s going to ruin everything, all my hopes and dreams for the future going down the drain. I feel like I'm being punished. He told me that me aborting would be the one thing he would never be able to get past since he considers this baby a miracle given that it was conceived against all odds. What happened to for better or worse? My parents and my best friend who's been trying to conceive for the last 5 years think I'm being incredibly selfish, but they're not the ones who'll have to deal with a screaming baby when it arrives. Adoption is out of the question because my husband refuses to let someone else raise his child when he’s perfectly capable of doing so himself. Having the baby, divorcing him and letting him raise it is out of the question for me because of the way everyone including my friends and family will look at me for abandoning my child when I never wanted it in the first place. Why can't anyone accept my decision? Why should I have to lose everything because of a baby I never wanted in the first place?

2007-04-09 03:30:53 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I went out with this guy last Friday. The date was great. We have dinner, hit a bar and later to a club. We end up making up at the club. He got really excited (if U catch my meaning) at the club. On the way to drop me off, he told me that he usually "gets" the girl...and then he added "that's not a bad thing, right?" I personally never "go home" with a guy on the first date...no matter how good the date was. Anyhow, I told him that "tonigh U R going home alone" I did mention that I had fun. Anyways, before I got aout of the car I give him a last kiss. The next morning he called and asked if I wanted to go to the movies...I say no thanks. So he mention that next weekend we could perhaps go out again. I told him yes to that.I really like him. But he is a player and he did told me he is not interested in a relationship at this point. But I don't know...I don't want to sleep with him if I'm going to be "one more to the black book". So, what do I do if I want to keep him around?

2007-04-09 03:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone, I am a newbie. I mean I just started today. So here goes.
I am married and 28 years old. I love my wife, she is the best to me. I don't want to be divorced cause I love her dearly. So why are these tendencies to visit strip joints and flirt starting to come into my head to where I am actually planning go out and have fun at strip joints. I am also starting to think about doing thrilling things such as sky diving, extreme sports and taking care of my body and exercising, eating right. My mind is changing and I just felt like telling somebody. Anyone else experiencing this early mid life crisis?

2007-04-09 03:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by micah s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This person is really pushy we have been friends for 12 years. She goes on and on about being my best friend and harassing me to hang out with her. I keep finding like my foundation at her house, or I find things missing after she has been there. She blames my toddler but I tear the house apart money goes missing and stupid stuff., but she keeps leaving her stuff at my house. So I don't know if I m overreacting or I should just not mind her taking my things.

2007-04-09 03:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Friends

some way to set up something for donations. I am a 21 year old female who had to leave the only home she knew to keep her family safe. I have no where to live, no furniture, and no money to get one. I have tried to get assisted living and welfare but they won't help me. If there is just some way to get back on my feet. I had to leave because there was nothing else for me to do. I had no other choice. Please those of you with rude comments do reply. If you know an easy pretty self effiecient way to set this up please let me know.

2007-04-09 03:25:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am all for child support, but I disagree with the extra non essential things.
My friend has 2 teenage sons who granted are very good students. They are good kids I think.
He pays child support, bought them both cars, pays their auto insurance, gives them a credit card for clothing. pays all their medical insurance and dental insurance, pays all their medical bills and dental bills.
When we go out to eat together, I pay and I drive. I think he is mooching off me to support them. I purposely forgot my billfold the other day, so he had to pay and he said "thats ok, I invited you". I think he needs to pay everytime. His ex looks like she just stepped out of a salon. Always decked out with her nails and hair done. New clothes.
I also dont think it is good for his kids not to have any responsiblity for paying their own bills. What do you think? He wears pocket t shirts old pants and is a food hoarder.

2007-04-09 03:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 03:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

right, me and my best mate have had a few words these past few days... he keeps taking the piss out of me and its getting to me a bit.... we had a chat but he still needs to get some digs in - the other night he said something like oh so your still my friend then... and i said course, id never fall out to which he replied i wouldn't care either way.... that really upset me so i needed to find out if he meant it.... he says im grief and nagging but i need to know, cos it really prays on my mind...

so the other night we had been out... he told me to get out of his car, then left me outside in the cold... then shouted me back over but locked me out.... he then said summat so i got in my car and drove off....

not heard from him since...

any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated !

Thanks

2007-04-09 03:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whats the best way for a girl to show her love to you?

2007-04-09 03:14:55 · 15 answers · asked by v. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 03:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by grcoleman84 1 in Singles & Dating

he's in a comma from a car accident and weve been there for each other ! should i tell him when he wakes up?

2007-04-09 03:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by damadrapper1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 26 and have been in 2 long relationships since I was 15. Needless to say I have never done the dating thing and need some advice about asking women out for dates.

2007-04-09 03:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by No clue 1 in Singles & Dating

and lately i feel as if he has been talking to his exgirlfriend behind my back. i have confronted him about it but all he says is ' You're the only girl and i wouldn't go out with you if i had ambitions to cheat on you'. but i went on his myspace yesterday and his ex commented him calling him baby and saying that she can't wait to see him wednesday. then when i asked him if he was going to see her he said he hasn't talked to her. but then his little brother told me all this stuff about how he talks to her at night and he bout her all this stuff. i don't know who to believe. but i need help!

2007-04-09 02:59:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who has the peacest backside ever!!!

2007-04-09 02:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by dan T 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-09 02:54:34 · 10 answers · asked by \" moOnLighT "/ 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello i love my wife so much it hurts. I think im not a real good husband. Before writing this i decided to think of the problems i have, so i dont just blame her and be one sided. My problems are i smoke, I dont talk enough to her, im always running a couple of minutes late and i havnt fixed the kitchen cubourd yet. The reason i dont talk enough is i work a 60 hour week and then after work to pay for the lifestyle she wants. I just feel tired and everyday is the same at work. I always tell her i love her she never does. She tells me things all the time such as your kids hate u, i hate u, dont tell me what to do i dont want another dad, im a pig, u dont help me, u dont make enough money and so on all the time. We go some where she leaves me and goes with her friends. I just want a wife that tells me she loves me, and shows me love. I dont go out at all or see my friends anymore i try to spend time with her. She goes out with her friends alot and worys what they think but not what i do

2007-04-09 02:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by luke52181932 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 02:52:59 · 30 answers · asked by He loves me he loves me not..... 2 in Singles & Dating