Why does it seem that some many girls ages 20-25 are gold-diggers?

Question

There is this girl that I used to talk to at a bank. She was always real nice and liked to flirt a lot. However, when she saw my vehicle (15 year old beat up truck), she lost intetest real quick. Well, after I pulled up to the bank window in my other car (2007 BMW M6), now all of the sudden she wants to get to know me again. She is now telling me about her availability and is hinting that she would like for me to take here out. Whats the deal? What is worse, it seems to me that I am meeting more and more girls like this. Are girls that are 20-25 and hot all gold-diggers?

Answer 1

yes most are!..blame it on society today ...the emphasis is on MONEY

Answer 2

I guess a bank isn't the best place to meet someone!

But not all 20-25 year old...hot women are gold diggers. But the ones that are, they probably feel as though they're entitled because of how good looking they are. Think high school, some of those girls never grow out of that mentality. Sometimes you pay a price for targeting only the perfect looking women.

Start thinking about their personality before their looks. You may have better luck finding a good woman seeing as looks aren't a great representation of what's inside.

Answer 3

Many women are not gold diggers....but you have to screen through them to find the right ones. Rather than being attracted to just the outside, screen through to find the ones with the good insides too. It may take some work but it will be worth it.

This is a really funny article on 10 Types of Women to Avoid. But if you read it carefully, it really offers some great advice as well.

10 Types of Women to Avoid
http://www.americaninventorspot.com/dolls_to_avoid


Enjoy

Answer 4

There are many guys around looking for a woman to support them and their old beat up truck. By the time a girl is twenty, she has met a few losers and maybe even dated some if she had a car to take them out in, money to buy dinner and pay for the movie. There are way too many loser dudes out running around making promises they won't keep and breaking hearts that are too sweet. If I were you I'd trade down on the Bavarian junk and trade up on the pickup truck. The girls are looking for a man to be their partner and it would be nice if he had some ambition and sense of style even with a little class. If you can't put it together, tell her I have a Lincoln Towncar and two pickups and a 4x4 jeep, boat, two trailers, house trailer, two homes and five lots but I might not be as pretty as you. Relationships are also about security for both of you. If you can't afford french fries and a coke, you are going to live in a tent. Not a very good tent.........................

Answer 5

My coworkers think I am a gold digger because I am always searching to date a successful guy with a nice car, a good job. The thing is I already have a nice car and a good job. I have my own set of standard when I choose to date men. There is a quote u might have heard about, "water seeks its own level".

Answer 6

Not all girls 20-25 are gold diggers.

I am 24 years old, 5ft 4inches, Weigh 114lbs, Long Dark Brown Hair, Blue eyes, Medium Toned Skin.

I guess it is so easy to be turned on by a Hot Guy who is financially stable. It shows that maybe they are mature and ready for a relationship.

For me I am only interested in a fun, loyal, caring and understanding man. I am dating a chef who only makes 30,000 a year and have for the past 3 1/2 years. I am a nurse and student studying to be a CRNA, a Model and have been asked by 3 doctors to go out with them and one even tried to buy me by telling me how much he makes in a year. I said "NO THANKS!" because I have already found what I am looking for in a man.

Answer 7

No but some are and it just sounds like your are finding them.... prob picking up girls with just "jobs" not careers is your first mistake. A lot of girls just work some where and are looking for a sugar daddy. But there are a lot of girls like myself who have a careers and own their own homes... and cars. Also what's your idea of hot?? My brother has this prob cause he likes that stripper look- tall skinny, blond, all dolled up in designer junk and in full makeup all the time.. well, that look cost money and someone has to pay for it....
Start looking for nice, normal girls.
Good luck.
PS- my fiance didn't even have a car when he ask me out!! LOL, it broke down and the city of phila towed it!! He borrowed a friends rusty truck and didn't tell me until later :)

Answer 8

There are a lot of shallow girls out there, especially the REALLY goodlooking ones because they're used to getting what they want. That being said, not all women are that way. There are plenty of attractive girls out there that would rather find love and happiness in a relationship than money. It's all about maturity in my opinion. The mature ones know money does not equal happiness.

Answer 9

Prosperity is part of attraction. Let's see if you can get this picture. A girl walks up to you in raggedy clothes, hair undone, and asks you for bus fare. She is really good looking, speaks with perfect diction and is not dirty. She tells you she works, but she just doesn't make enough to make ends meet. You're cute, she says, and she'd like your phone number too.
You'd run like hell!
If you weren't into material things, your "REAL CAR" would be that truck. Stop playing games with others and yourself.

Answer 10

Think about it this way, you have something she wants and she has something you want so what is the difference? Just because you get together for a night or more doesn't mean you have to pay so stop thinking about them as "gold diggers". You can always dig for gold too!

Answer 11

As a woman, I know this happens a lot, it's sad that they think money is everything. I fell in love with a man who lived at home, had no car nor money. He had gotten laid off and ran out of unemployment. He promised me he would take care of me and my 2 sons. That was 25 years ago. I love him more and more everyday. God Bless and good luck. She will come along.