2007-04-09 02:54:34 · 10 answers · asked by \" moOnLighT "/ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should do it. It could turn out to be the best move you ever make!
2007-04-09 02:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by sef567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,it isnt wise,nor is it acceptable and is very irresponsible on your part as well as his.He is married and it seems as if he is having his cake and eating it too,so to speak.He is actually with you,and he is married.He has a wife at home,and you need to let this guy go.If he is going to cheat on someone,let alone his wife he will cheat on anybody.Who knows who else this male(i wont even call him a man) has been with and/or what he is going to bring back to you,and his unsuspecting wife.Let him go,and tell him if he wants to be with you,he needs to get rid of the wife,or if he wants the wife he needs to get rid of you.Him and his wife need some serious counselling.I have a feeling you know this is wrong,but you are looking for some justification of the relationship.However,this relationship is not going to be justified anywhere!He is married,leave him be.I know this is harsh,but this is a very harsh situation.Let him go,and suggest him and his wife seek counselling as a couple.This relationship has already been damaged and may not be fixable.He married her,he is committed to her and he needs to try to work this out.Divorce is an expensive break up and he can break up with you at no cost,but to divorce his wife he is going to be giving up alot of cash.Let him go.Good luck hun,and have a good day!!
2007-04-09 10:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be single but he is not! Don't mess with situations like that! They never end up good. I you were married you wouldn't want to be cheated! So keep in mind that he has a family.
2007-04-09 10:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by dionisia c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't because marriage should be held in honor, and as far as you're concerned, this guy isn't great with commitment, so all this is going to end in is heartbreak, for everyone.
2007-04-09 10:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
defintely not a good idea un;ess there's a special understanding or a friendship. and if you ask me, No! . . . not even in discreet meetups as in my personal experience!
whatever it is as you've said it a "date" as a potential for developemnt or advancement of "feelings".
as they say " love works in mysterious ways" . . . just becareful . . . it may happen to you.
good luck.
2007-04-09 10:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by auntie_peggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married guys are married so u dont date them how do u not know that?
2007-04-09 09:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not wise, thats dumb and maybe dangerous, especially if his wife is a huge woman
2007-04-09 10:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. That will cause lots of problems for you and especially him.
2007-04-09 09:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what you want, but dont expect any thing special..
2007-04-09 10:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont date married guys!
they have wives, duh!
2007-04-09 09:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋