2007-04-09 02:52:59 · 30 answers · asked by He loves me he loves me not..... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that he should respect you for your wishes regarding that . if he can not do that then you need to let him go . He is not worth your time if he does not respect your wishes . Then that is all he wants anyway to get the goods from you. let him go .
2007-04-09 02:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground and never give in because no one should be forced to do anything that they don't want to, especially when it comes to sex. If he doesn't understand why you won't put out then just dump him and find someone who feels just like you when it comes to this. Some guys think nothing but sex, which is wrong, and once you give in and the deed is done there is no turning back, after you give out some guys dump you anyway - they got what they wanted and don't need you anymore. STAND your ground.
2007-04-09 09:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by gatz1000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike and not come back. First of all, forcing sex is called rape. And even if it's not to the point of actual physical force, it's still not right that he's pressuring you so much. He's very self centered and self gratifying. Wait for someone who respects you and wants to make you happy. Don't settle for any less.
Chin up! YOU have rights! :)
2007-04-09 10:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he is your bf doesn't he love and respect your feelings especially if you tell him no over and over again. But I'll tell you this all he wants is sex and once he gets it he will leave you and if you decide to one day give in make sure to make him wear a condom. Because he might have had experience in sex and you might not and if he hasn't been using protection one of teo things could happen to you. One is get pregnant and he will leave and say it's not his and two you can get an STD and he will tell you that he got it from you. SO if he keeps pressing you kick him to the curb, his not bf material.
2007-04-09 10:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U need to have a long talk with him! I'm not gonna say something just to make u happy or say what u want to hear. But if u think about it all boys are like that u just got to talk to him about it!Maybe he wants to have sex because he feels its time and that you guys are a couple now!!! But if u feel different about that you need to let him know that it's just not the right time!!!!!!!!
2007-04-09 10:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is forcing you to do something you do not want to do, you need to question the relationship. If he truly cares for you, he wouldn't "force" you do do anything. That certainly is a lack of respect. If he cannot wait until you are ready, then you need to find someone who can.
2007-04-09 09:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by ubiquitous_mr_lovegrove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only have sex when you are comfortable with it.
That said, you do need to communicate why you feel you don't want to. This is especially important if you've already made love to him before. For most modern adult romantic relationships, lovemaking is considered an integral part of it. I was in a relationship where lovemaking stopped very abruptly. I was hurt and confused. Worse, my bf and gf didn't explain why. Though I could take the lack of physical intimacy, the fears as to what that meant to the relationship were immense and they, in combination with the lack of communication, caused a lot of damage to our relationship.
It was only later I realized my bf (a female to male transsexual) was extremely insecure over his body, especially in proximity to a typical male body in a sexual context. Our gf was very co-dependent on him, so followed his lead in the things he did.
It's hard to be in love with someone and not be intimate. Harder still if you don't know why they don't want to be intimate with you.
2007-04-09 09:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Get rid of him fast. He does not respect you or love you. what else will try to make you do.
If you were to marry him he will be forcing you to do or not do lots of things that are contrary to your will. Even if your relationship was perfect on day one it can only go down hill from there. "wats love got to do with it"
2007-04-09 09:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by diana b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If he really cared about you he would NOT try to Force you to have sex. He is only in it to try to have sex with you.
Run as fast as you can out of this fast as you can. He is a jerk.
2007-04-09 09:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then don't do it.
If your boyfriend can not be responsible enough for you to wait. Don't do it.
You are to young. Just wait.
I bet if you tell your boyfriend that you are not ready. He will dump you and go for some-one else.
That isn't a real man.
Don't Do It.
2007-04-09 09:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by LA LA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋