This person is really pushy we have been friends for 12 years. She goes on and on about being my best friend and harassing me to hang out with her. I keep finding like my foundation at her house, or I find things missing after she has been there. She blames my toddler but I tear the house apart money goes missing and stupid stuff., but she keeps leaving her stuff at my house. So I don't know if I m overreacting or I should just not mind her taking my things.
2007-04-09 03:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this person is NOT your friend
2007-04-09 03:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk away. Cut it clean. There are friends that take one or two things and get forgetful, sure, but this is a habit to this so-called 'friend', as well as lying, ESPECIALLY about a toddler's involvement??? Jeez, that is as low as any form of child exploitation! You're not being cold or overrreactive; You're taking personal responsibility for your life and things, as well as encouraging the other person to do the same, even if only passively. Plus, you're taking a negative influence out of your toddler's sight. You don't need words, because obviously this other person has the kind of personality that has no regard for others, so let her drop. Furthermore: If this so-called 'friend' has a key to your place, you need to change your locks, NOW.
2007-04-09 10:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fred S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her about it. If she denies it then i would not let her over for my house for a while even if she begs. You could say maybe This Time We Could Hang at Your House Instead Of Mine. And if she does come over make sure to watch her closely and not let her wander alone. You should mind she is taking your private and personal stuff.
2007-04-09 10:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your purse with you when she is around, place marbles in your medicine cabinet so they will fall out if she opens it, , get a locked box for your cash or keep it on you, and don't let her in your bedroom alone.
2007-04-09 10:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should be sure before u take any steap. Cus may be she's right.....if u see her doing that thing....then just give her warning....Like if she do anything again u'll call Police or something....and if she still jack ur things u should do that.
2007-04-09 10:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.$Bad$ jatt *4rom* `Punjab` 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd comfront her and be very straight forward about my things!
Tell her if she wants something of yours she should ask.
Sometimes we do have to be harsh or people will walk all over us.
2007-04-09 10:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by ?l??????? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋