Are married men better between the sheets?

Question

I just had the most incredible experience with a married man. I am single and he was married. Unlike all of the single guys I have been with which has been disappointing this married man treated me and took me places I thought unattainable. He has pursued for months and months and finally I figured what the hell and we did the did. My question is are married better because of their experience and practice?

I don't see why everone would hate me. I am not the one who made the wedding vows. He pursued me for months!

Answer 1

*Well I won't knock you for what you did. Because "cheating" is all a matter of personal opinions on whether or not it's right, and when something is done, if it's considered "cheating" etc.

~But my own opinion on your question, is that I don't think so much it's that married men are better in the sheets, simply because they're married. Rather...it's the thrill and scandal...which causes your adrenaline to shoot through the roof, and it's hormones too.
.There is some level of the sheer excitment you get and arousel from your adrenaline. Blame it on that and brain chemicals etc.

~Granted I do agree with one of the other users who answered your question saying something like "It doesn't matter whether someone is married or single, they can be good or bad in the sheets..it has nothing to do w/ being married."

**I don't know, I think that the whole marriage bit is a little overrated these days. And cheating is way more common or well...now everyone is more aware of it, and how people are going about doing it. Which is funny...because when anyone hears of someone cheating (married or not) they act like they are so shocked, and it's unheard of?! Why?

*The way I see it is that, if "you" know you are going to cheat, then don't get yourself into a committed relationship. Whether it's marriage or simply being b/f and g/f. Because it's useless.

.Also I think that you really cannot promise someone you will only love them or like them for the rest of your life. Really think about it. I mean you can be married and your husband might think Jessica Alba is hot...(he likes her)...although it's purely physical attraction and the chances that he'd ever get with her are one in a million...but my point is that, just b/c you marry someone or are b/f and g/f it does not stop them from liking other men/women or having fantasies about them.

*Which from the way everyone reacts on here, they seem to think that marriage bans husbands/wives from liking other people. that's funny. it does not work that way.

~And half the time people who cheat may have thought at the time they were ready to be committed etc. and then they find out....well....they weren't. Or they just want some variety. There are numerous reasons people will cheat, it depends on the person.

(Sorry I got a little "off topic" but I thought I should throw some extra stuff in there.)

Answer 2

Married men are better because of experience and practice. When your married, you try just about everything once. When you do certain things out of the norm to a typical/average women (i.e not a sluut, porn star or hooker) and they like it (when you figured they wouldn't), this is a sign that most women would like it.

Most women like more than just missionary, unfortunitly some couples just don't like trying new things (rut that leads to divorce and separations). A married man has probably tried it all. The places he took you to, the single guys have never been to. They are all about getting off themselfves first, you come second, if you come at all. A married mans goal in bed is to make his lady have orgasms before he has his own.

I have done everything imaginable, and still keep coming up with ways to impress her with multiple O's. Kind of like a second job I actually love.

Answer 3

Most married men have had more practice , are more experienced, but that also works against them. The initial enthusiasm after the first time is lost in the repeats.If guilt enters the mind its another negative. A lot of the "high" for both of you was probably the idea of the experience, you with a married man, him with sex outside of his normal life. Sounds like he's done this before.

Answer 4

Not sure why so many people are offended by your question. The man in question is way more to blame then you in this situation.

As for you question, YES I would think that guys that have been married a while are going to be better. One, they have had years of practice perfecting haw to please their wives. While all women are a little different, the "equipment" is pretty standard and most married guys have had lot of practice using it. Second, this guy may not have been with another women for many years so I'm sure he took his time and made it last.

Just make sure not to run your mouth too much about this situation unless you want to get the guy caught!

Good luck.

Answer 5

I can't speak for all married men, but I think I am almost certainly a better lover now than when I was single. Practice has something to do with it, yes. Additionally, there are physical changes that occur with age; for example, erections tend to last longer. Married men are more patient, I think, being in a position where they are getting enough sex anyway, so they're not acting desperate. Finally, a man who has a wife who is good at communicating probably now understands better what it takes to please a woman from listening to her and putting what she has told him into practice.

All that said, shame on you for having sex with a married man!

Answer 6

Do you realise what you have done? I dont; care who pursued who..The wife is the one who has had his children,she is the one who does his laundry,she is the one who sees him in a bad mood,she is the one who cooks,cleans up after his a@@,she has gone without things for him and so on....It is not a matter of being better in bed it's a matter that he has spent many nights in her bed and you were fresh meat! Married men usually wont' leave their wives and you are no differant do you think you were his first? I find it sad that you would do that to another woman!Remember Karma when you are married and are in her situation and some young thing comes along....and does your hubby...

Answer 7

he seemed better because to him, you are a blank slate and to you he was "forbidden"

Married men (sorry but it's true especialy of men) tend to start looking at their wives like they are 'stuck' in a certain role. Your spouse isn't just another person, they are the person you have memories, commitments and history with. So men tend to view their wives only in a certain way. They don't try to initiate anything new, don't bother makign sure they please them, don't bother communicating anymore. Women often give up trying to get their men to open up and being more active int he relationship.

So to summarize, married men are "better" because you arent' their wife and therefore they will treat you like "fresh meat" - whcih is exactly all you are to them; a conveniant recepticle for their condom and their "emotions"

it doesn't mean anything beyond that.

Answer 8

LMAO..NO married men aren't better...well technically I guess they are..but only b/c they have let their relationship with their wife deteriate...(wife has too) so when they get a new taste they get all excited again ...but marry that married man and he will be boring in a few years and searching for new cheese.....why do you think 'once a cheater always a cheater' is still being said....? My hubby and I have a terriffic sex life (13 yrs)...we maintain it....we still crave each other ...we pour our love into it and keep it fresh and interesting....so therefore we dont need to search for refreshment..so to speak.....SO yes it may seem better on your part.....but ask his wife how great he is ?

Answer 9

I think the idea that your not supposed to be doing it is what makes it seem like it's good. There's the " what if we get caught" rush....I actually just got cheated on and no, I don't blame the woman, I blame him, but I think you should probably end the affair asap before it gets too hot and heavy and then feelings are involved. It never ends up the way you thought it would.

Answer 10

You hit the nail on the head. If a man can get someone so satisfied they'd be willing to spend the rest of their life with him, he can probably hook you up.

NOTE: there's definitely a BAD reason or two you can catch a married man too. They're not keepers if you can catch a married one still married.