the person im inlove with has now decided they dont love me anymore and it really hurts and they keep doing and saying things that hurt me.. n i kst dnt want it to hurt anymore .. n idk wht to do..
2007-04-09 01:25:24 · 14 answers · asked by hot, sweet n aussie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why asking for advise? Don't be affraid, Just do it, if you feel like doing it ... DO IT ...
Come-on dear, don't get down, you must be realistic and bold to face life realities ... and the life realities are mostly tough and bitter.
You have not defined the type of people & their relationship with you and the reason why they hate you?
I beleive if all world hates you, your Mother will never ever hate you, she's the one who gave birth to you, gave identity to you ... have you talked to her???
You have a gift of God in the shape of this Life, don't just waste it by killing yourself or cursing yourself or taking burden about what others say about you.
Its your life so please enjoy it ... forget about people who hate you without reason.
2007-04-09 01:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by khawaja253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking for help is a step in the right direction! Just please don't try killing yourself, I am sure that so many people would be devastated by your loss! As for the ex, stay away from him/her, people who are willingly hurting you aren't worth your time. I know that it doesn't feel like it now, but these feelings and the hurt will pass! Something or someone better is out there waiting for you! And always remember living well is the best revenge. Life is way to short to spend it unhappy, find something that truly makes YOU happy! Write your feelings in a journal, talk to someone, get a hobby. People can only hurt you if you allow them to.
Remember "God put rainbows in the clouds so that each of us-in the dreaded moments-can see a possibility of hope" Maya Angelou
2007-04-09 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by samhiguchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is worth killing yourself for; I don't care if she was the most beautiful woman that God created. That is not an option! Get some help, talk to a friend , your Pastor, Priest, Rabbi or whomever, but do not take this route. Death is permanent, you cannot change your mind after the deed is done. From what you say about Miss Wonderful she could not care at all if you live or die, so why kill yourself? Do you think that you will punish her by taking such drastic action.No way. Get some help, talk to someone. If you really want to get back at her, LIVE, make something of yourself so that she can say at some point, "Boy, was I stupid in letting him go">
2007-04-09 01:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people jsut have problems. It's impossible to compare someone's life experiences here in the States with those or people in Africa. Sure those people know they don't have the best life, but do they really want to come to cut-throat back-stabbing America? People have problems everywhere. It doesn't matter if they're dying of AIDS or living with other issues. We all take situations differently. You're being very insensitive. Emos need love, like those in Africa, too. Besides, someone who's desressed will wish for that life in Africa, that's sad enough in itself. They don't know how truly wonderful the gift of life is.
2016-05-20 22:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person who is hurting u dose not deserve u so why u are sad for such a person that lives just to hurt u ignore him and live ur life because there is a lot of things in life is waiting for u so be happy and stop thinking about killing ur self its not Worth it believe me search for good Friends that are ready to hear u and share ur happiness and sadness with u. if u live and show that person that u are happy he will really be disappointed that he couldn't brake ur speared. doesn't that feel good to let him taste what u tasted.
be happy....
2007-04-09 01:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not together anymore then just put that other person out of your life. They don’t control you and you deserve someone much better. Breakups are always hard but suicide is not the way to deal with it. Live and Learn.
2007-04-09 01:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know right now you are heartbroken but remember before you knew this person you were perfectly fine so now that you dont have them you should try to enjoy yourself. Go out do things you like and try to have FUN! just give it time and dont think about killing urself EVER life is too good to waste it like that
2007-04-09 05:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave my boy. suicide is for timid not for brave lite you. Why do take the face value of what they say. Even if they say so don't mind life is the gift of God. Enjoy it. Thing which you can give you cant take. good luck. take care.
2007-04-09 01:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i had that same feeling. after my bf broke up with me i was extremly sad and i felt like killing myself also. everytime i had the knife in my hand...gettin ready...to you know...stab myself...i didnt...i chikened out..which pist me over even more...so then after my ex bf left..he moved to a diff. country my best friend was there...helping through that **** and helping me become strong...and we started hanging out more and more and more and more and i started to like him..hell even love him! and now i love him soo much!!! so don't kill your self...just wait cuz there is a way better guy out there for you then that jerk that decided he didnt love you anymore...you'll find your 1.....GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-09 01:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off to the doctors for you, quickly now!
2007-04-09 01:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋