Realtionship help! can anyone please please help me?

Question

ok here whats going on, me and my girlfriend broke up 3weeks ago, for the first week she was bitterly mad at me (she borke up with me by the way) for the way i acted about , then a after that week we started talking again and she told me that she wants to be with me but know i need time to get my anger under some type of control. i started therapy and all that, as we started talking more and more, she told me shes not intrested in anyone else and just wanted me but until im ready she wants to be friends with benefits who dont mess around with anyone else, so i said ok because i love her more than my own self and i want to be with, this is not the first time we broke up in fact its about the 6th time and we always break up because we start to agrue 2muc 4a period of time. so we have bein talking on the phone and all that until saturday when my new car broke down she drove by and saw me and asked me if iwanted her to come back and help me i said sure, but me and my friends got it moving

and i thought when i was talking to her i described it that we were moving now and all that but she got to where i was adn calle dme asking where i was at now and i told her i got it mooving now she is mad at me and wont speak to me, i called yesterday to tell her happy easter and i talked to her mom adn her mom told me "Jake she doesnt want to hear your voice,she pissed at you and if i was her i would be too. You keep ***** up and doing the same **** jake" so i replyed and just said ok and then said if she wanted to call me later, and her mom replyed not to count on it, this all happened 2 hrs after she was telling me how much she loved me and how i was her hero and all this, so what do i do she wont talk to me at all and im just so confused and need help please,

also we have bein off and on for three yrs adn i really do love her

Answer 1

Sounds like a tumultuous relationship. I'm not sure that I'd have the patience to break up, make up, break up, make up, etc.etc.
You sound like you are making an effort to keep the relationship going - attending therapy and all. And what is she doing but giving you a hard time?! If I were you, I'd move on and find someone else. If her feelings can change that drastically in a matter of two hours, she's confused and she doesn't need to be wasting your time. I know you love her, but love should be a two-way street.
Your car mixup was nothing more than a comedy of errors. You got it running, she came back and missed you. It's not that big of a deal and she should realize that. Good luck!

Answer 2

i agree. from the sound of it you didnt do anything wrong. her mom should not have gotten in the middle of it all. all she had to do was tell you she didnt want to talk. every story has 2 sides and the mom didnt know yours. as for the girlfriend she is playing a control game with you. she wants to know that she can say jump and you will say how high. that isnt love it is dominance. no one man or woman deserves to be dominated by another person. good luck and find another that will appreciate you for who you are

Answer 3

Keep going to therapy for your own sake,but move on. You shouldn't be there for her convenience. You and your feelings will really get trampled on in the long run when she finds someone else to occupy her down time. The first five break-ups should have been enough of a clue. It isn't meant to be.

Answer 4

you have broke up 6 times now, dont you think its time you called it a day, afterall if it was meant to be then you wouldnt be arguing and breaking up all the time, just end it and move on

Answer 5

contol your ager fo sure dont be anything but nice and just let time tell at least yore with someone. and hey that freinds with benifits sounds pretty good to me :)

Answer 6

if u 2 keep arguin that much it aint gonna work out well