WE have a child together we ve been together 4 about 2 years and considering marriage
2007-04-09 02:50:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't marry him if you are going to have sex with other people...
2007-04-09 02:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by EW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey this is sooo normal I have been married for some time now and I still have sexual urges and attractions for other people taht's all part of being a human being, there is no law that says you can't be sexually attracted to someone if your in a committed relationship, the issues occur when one chooses to act on these urges, with me my husband knows that I am not blind just like I know he's not blind and just like myself we both encounter beautiful men and women on a daily basis and just because I found someone extremely attractive that doesn't mean I am going to act on it I am drawn to people and it's partly because of my bubbly personality and I am also very intrigued by the human species and I love to mingle and learn new thiungs but at the end of the day my husband knows I am coming home to him and he likewise. We know that we are very much in love and committed to one another, as long as two people have an understanding of one another and no where they stand in each others life.
2007-04-09 03:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a fantasy life and there is nothing wrong with it uness you act on it. I was very happilied married and had the biggest crush on The Fonz, obviously I wasn't going to act on this but it did make for some interesting nights! My husband never knew that some nighs he wore a leather jacket and had a duck tail.
2007-04-09 02:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you must understand that Sex is not Love, rather Love includes Sex, if it is with a boy frend or girl friend.
Love is a feeling, which we have for our parents, brothers & sisters, relatives and friends etc.
Love with a gf or bf (if it's not just for sex) is when you have agreed to marry, otherwise its just SEX.
In your case, i would suggest you need to review the depth of your love for that boy ... if you really love him and wanna marry him THEN you must forget about sex with others. Because if you do that then you are cheating and not really sincere to yourself, your love or him
2007-04-09 02:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by khawaja253 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and consider Why you want to have sex with others. Is it you are scared of the big step of marriage and are trying to sabatoge your marriage plans?
2007-04-09 02:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you love him for some things and not others. i had a girl friend like that she loved her husband but every now and then she went to bed with this guy because he was "big" and that the only reason why. if your not going to be in a relationship all the way then don't be in it sweety.. he deserves better than that.
2007-04-09 02:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u find yourself wanting to have sex wit other guys than it is not love. If u really love your boyfriend than u would not want to have sex wit other people besides him.
2007-04-09 02:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by He loves me he loves me not..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont plan on marrying him if all your gonna do is cheat.
If you want others then no that is not really love
because if you loved him you would never hurt him in any way
2007-04-09 02:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no that aint love you dont love someone when you find urself with others havin sex that is cooled right there 2 years did you just relize that you want someone else and you want to have sex with them that is wrong you will break his heart. you sound like a whore
2007-04-09 02:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by porkey_10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. that's unfaithful. if you really love him, give and leave all the best things you have to him. I'm sure you dun wan him to think abt having sex wif other gal do you?
relationship and love is more than jus sex.
2007-04-09 02:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by johnny c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you better get it out of your system before you get married... most people want sex with other people no matter what relationship they are in.. there is a difference between wanting and doing.. it is your choice.
2007-04-09 02:55:04 · answer #11 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋