i dont care about those persons who cares about me and love me. why i dont love that person who love me a lot?
2007-04-09 02:32:31 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-04-11 01:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very strange problem. But, let me see if I can try to answer your Question. Care and Love are two such feelings that are required at least to some extent, in each person. You need to Care for/Love to be reciprocated. You get what you give. Some incident in past might be a reason for you not to care/love for other people. Someone might have broken your trust, cheated upon you; that makes you not to love him/her? One more reason might be you don't trust people so easily that prevents you from loving in return. If none, its time to mingle, care for/love and reciprocate to others feelings, but you got to take a call if the feelings you respond to are indeed genuine.
2007-04-16 11:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love a person you look for something special which attracts you rather than the thing that the person loves you.
This is all by nature. But in real life you should go for a person who loves you most.
2007-04-16 20:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sandeep G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i kinda like have the same problem. There's this dude who has helped me a lot in my exams and I feel obliged to be nice with him but then he just wants to hang out with me that I find it weird and these days I really hate him but by doing so i feel that I'm such an ungrateful **** (which is true) but I can't seem to help it
2007-04-10 17:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by God sent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force yourself to feel for someone if there is nothing there to start with. Why settle for someone if they love you and you don't love them back? When love come and bites you on the bum (and not literally speaking!) you will realise how wonderful it is. Be patient, it will happen. It's only because the 'right' one hasn't crossed your path as yet. You ever heard of the saying "True love comes to those who wait".
2007-04-15 01:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea your lucky you have people that love you. theres homeless and others that just dont have a family because they prolly screwwd up in life and theyre family kicked them to the curve. Dont be pessimistic. It's bad. Just accept it and if you cant move on. Its prolly going to be hard for you to love your boyfriend or something cause in order to maintain a healthy relationgship with someone you need trust, honesty, and LOVE
2007-04-16 17:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural instinct...we always aspire for what we dont have and run behind it...and bever look at what we have...we know the person who likes or loves us is always there for us, so we dont care much about them, instead we go behind them who do not...I guess thats normal with all people.......
2007-04-16 22:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you should understand that this is no problem. If a person loves you, then there is no rule that it should be reciprocated. If you do love them then fine, else they have to accept you as you are.
The same is applicable to you too. If you love someone, you need not expect them to love you back.
2007-04-15 19:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we push away the people who love us, either because we are afraid of being hurt or we feel that we don't deserve their love. If you close your heart to those who love you....you may not get hurt, but you also close yourself off from knowing what its like to be truly loved.
2007-04-17 02:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Covianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue you don't love yourself? Youre parents are the ones who love you the most and will love you forever. And if you can't love them, you can't love anybody in the world. Cos you won't understand the essence of sacrifice in love.
Value yourself, throw away your ego, lvoe yourself, consider yourself as an integral part of this world. In short, change your perspective towards life.
All the best...
:-)
2007-04-10 09:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love comes from both sides. A lot of people likes me but I can't stand their personality so I don't like them back. Sometimes I like people but they don't like me.
2007-04-09 02:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋