She does everything for me and all I do is yell at her. I can't stand the fact she has everything I always wanted and NEVER gonner have?
2007-04-09 00:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by CC_Boobcock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm not selfish I just want what every man and woman on this earth takes for granted.
2007-04-09 00:47:53 · update #1
Ask yourself has all this hateful emotion and resentment gotten you what you want?? Will it ever??
You can not have what others have, it is theirs. BUT you can have what is yours by putting out what you want to get back...
.....the universe is like a mirror......your getting what you put out into it!
Stop worring about what others have or do and start working
on you and what you want by giving what you want to get.
2007-04-09 01:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop hating your Mother, by loving her. You have no idea of what is ahead for you in this life,so when you say that she her everything you ever wanted and are NOT going to get, what makes you so certain of this? Don't make the green eyed monster destroy a relationship with someone who obviously loves you, and you repay that love by "yelling" at her. If you need to unravel these negative feelings, look for a group that you can join , Talk therapy is great. Give it a try. Meanwhile make a pact with yourself that you are not going to yell at her, and that you are going to be loving towards her. We all have only one Mother and she deserves our understanding and her love. Just by doing this, you will start to feel better about yourself. Good luck.
2007-04-09 07:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a little bit jealous. I think that you might be having issues with yourself and you are taking it out on your mother.
I think you need to sit down and list all the good things about your mother. Then try and figure out just why you really hate her.
Then if you believe in God, I suggest that you make this matter an earnest matter of prayer.
As mothers we love our children and want the best for them. I love mine. Each person alive has the opportunity to obtain the best things in life. Sometimes this requires that we take steps towards obtaining them.
Even people who didn't have a very good child hood are able to obtain love and all.
I will end this advice with a quote from Abe Lincoln, "most folks are as happy as they allow themselves to be."
2007-04-09 07:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my advice
-Think of the pain she went through to bring u in2this world
-Know that no matter what it seems like2u@the time-she only wants the best4u, just as someday u will want4ur child
-Remember that once upon a time she2was young like u&it doesnt mean that cause she is older, she doesnt understand
-Imagine that u only had a limited time left with her..&wud nvr c her again-how wud u wanna spend that time with her?
My best friend recenly lost her mom very suddenly&theres nothing she wudnt do2hav her back...
Make the best of the time u have.. NOW:)
2007-04-09 07:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by jammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a mother and you will start loving ur mom. Actually, you have start loving ur mom when u posted this question online. If you really hate her, you will not bother to find way to stop hating her. This is the 1st step. Dont make yourself regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-04-09 10:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by shygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got a mom n i dont so be happy n keep her happy cuz not every 1 has zis chance 2 have a mother!!!!
2007-04-09 07:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by $!r@h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn selfishness and hatred into gratefulness and love.You only get one chance with your parents.
2007-04-09 07:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some serious self-inventory to see why you are so self-absorbed. Be grateful for what you have.
2007-04-09 07:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, selfish!
you got it good
some of us dont have anywhere NEAR what you got
i'll trade you!!
2007-04-09 07:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋