I know I like him (not sure if as a good friend or as something more) but I don't trust him. Sometimes he replies late (6hours late once, but sometimes i am at fault i replied his text late in the first place) to my text or doesn't call back till late. When he stops asking me for supper on friday night, I think he is avoiding me and irritated by my talk. We work in the same building and sometimes I feel like he could have been more friendly to me instead of just wave and grin.
Don't get the wrong idea I never bug him or irritate him or keeps calling him I only call when there is really something. He on the other hand text me for nothing out of the blue and he is always so enthusiastic on the phone and text. But he's stopped asking me for supper. I know he is busy now but I feel like there is something about myself that irritates him? Everytime he replies late I keep scrutinising my text to see if I said something wrong or stupid but mostly I don't think I did. Why? How do I stop?
2007-04-09 00:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by adrienne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I over-analyse too but not to this extent, perhaps because I am so busy. Like you say yourself, he is busy and therefore not able to ask you around all the time or able to reply to your text as soon as you send it. I think you should busy yourself, get some new hobbies, new friends and new plans. If he is the only thing in your life, if you don't already irritate him now, you will! Once you've got a busy life, you won't notice when he doesn't text back straight away, and when calls it will be a nice surprise rather than something you've been waiting for.
It sounds like he likes you, and you like him, so enjoy it rather than over-analyse it. Good luck!
2007-04-09 00:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by starry eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being insecure. You are not even attached to the man, and you expect him to drop everything to contact you. How selfish can you be. Either you want him as a boyfriend and you tell him so, or let him do other things until you decide how you feel. Just remember that if you wait too long, you may lose him.
2007-04-09 07:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two seem to be out of sync with each other.
Maybe the 'relationship' or 'love' chemistry just isn't there.
One day you'll hit it off with someone who will respond promptly (when they can) to your sms's and you'll do the same for them, because you're 'in-tune' with each other.
2007-04-09 07:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has someone hurt or abandoned you in the past. you might want to deal with the underlying issues which result in this behaviour. good luck.
2007-04-09 07:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you *are* being paranoid! Calm down, you both are obviously taking it at different speeds. Connect with him about this, only he can tell you what he thinks.
2007-04-09 07:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like hes not really that interested in you. lay off for a while and see if he comes around! if he does then go for it if not move on
2007-04-09 07:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that what you should do is jut take the plunge send hima message now and tell him how u feel
2007-04-09 07:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋