We are going strong after a year and 4 months, and we chatted a LOT and knew quite a bit about each other...but could it have made for a better relationship if we let the friendship build before acting out on our attractions the first time we met in person?
Thanks!
2007-04-09 00:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is always best to know each other before sex. That's not to say it never works, there are people still together that met that way. I've always found a relationship works better though when sex is not rushed into right away. I'd rather love my friend than a stranger. Good luck!
2007-04-09 00:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by kimmy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that cannot be answered universally for everyone. There are many factors that go into determining whether a relationship is going to work or not. Your feelings, your partner's feelings, timing, baggage, etc. I would say if you had been speaking online for 6 months prior to your date, you would know each other fairly well though and so having sex could seem to be appropriate.
2007-04-09 07:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cisco 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not bad. But it is risky. We can pretend to be anyone we want to be on the net. You need to get to know a person a little bit. Chatting, even over a long term is still make - believe. However I have been guilty of the same thing. . . .
2007-04-09 07:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all is good. You are still together after all. My guy and I are taking our relationship painfully slow. Sometimes it is difficult, because I want things to move along faster. But I think we will be stronger in the end for it. Everyone is different. What works for me may not work for you. And I do think you can grow a friendship and still be intimate.
2007-04-09 07:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Gump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because to meet on the neet doesnt mean that you wont have a great relationship with your bf your already know alot about each other that makes you closer together and u alredy had the attraction the firt time you both meet in person......so dont worry you will have a great relationship if your were already friends or not
2007-04-09 07:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all ends well.. then whats to blame.. i met my bf on myspace.. we chatted briefly for two weeks before meeting..i don't think i slept with him right away.. maybe a week or so after :)
messed around some i'm sure.. but meh we're still living happily ever after
2007-04-09 07:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad but much better if you know him more in personal.. I think you can make love with him if he propose a marriage to you! but we did the same way hehe
2007-04-09 07:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by goddess19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chatted with this guy for HALF A YEAR... that's around 1/150th of your entire lifetime.
I think that's long enough to wait.
2007-04-09 07:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a year and 4 months, you are fine stop feeling guilty about it clearly if it was a bad move he would have not called you ever again
2007-04-09 07:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it doesnt really matter! you say uve been together for over a year and u intially met him on myspace! good for you... if things are going great then i wouldnt dwell on how you got this far! enjoy it
2007-04-09 07:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋