no such thing as a "soulmate"
2007-04-09 01:09:47
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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I don't really know if there is such a thing. I actually thought I had found mine on more than one occasion. I believe when you are in a bad relationship you start to look at other people and find them much more interesting than your current spouse who is probably getting on your last nerve. What you have to ask yourself is if it is really your soulmate or is it some infatuation because the grass always looks greener on the other side.
I did leave my fiancee almost five years ago for the man I was sure was my soulmate. I went against my family and friends to be with him. Now, 5 years later we are still together but I hardly think we are soulmates like I used to. Don't get me wrong, I still love him alot but back then I was looking at the world through rose coloured glasses. Remember nothing in this life is ideal. We sometimes just really want it to be!
2007-04-09 09:47:52
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answered by Margarita T 2
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I think that the term "soulmate" in the context you use it is merely an excuse for leaving a marriage. Saying to yourself, "Oh, I found my soulmate!" perhaps eases your conscience about not having put enough work into your marriage.
So, let's say you leave your husband for your "soulmate". A few years go by, the shine wears off of THAT marriage, and then you meet the man who is your TRUE soulmate. So, you leave your newer husband for your newer soulmate. Then, a few years go by, and the cycle repeats. And then it repeats again. Each time, you use the excuse of having found your real soulmate, but each time the truth of the matter remains that you simply suck at making a long-term relationship work.
2007-04-09 09:25:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I had been in a very bad relationship/marriage for 8 years total. I started working at a new job and after 2 years I ended up being really good friends with this guy. We worked 12 hours a day. He was having marital problems also. I ended up geting a divorce. A year or longer later he did also. Our friend ship contiued. Then we realized all we had everbeen looking for was right there in front of us. We are married now. I had 2 kids previous and so did he so we are a family of 6. We have never had a argument or harsh word at all. We help each other in everything and share everything. I do believe we were ment to be together, and yes are soul mates. God makes someone for everyone and eventhough it may take a while to find them once you do it is as close to heaven as you can get without dieing!!!!
2007-04-09 08:50:03
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answered by lyttledarlin 4
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I would have to say that I have. Although we don't always see eye to eye, I feel like we were destined to be together. For example, I have a daughter through another man, a loser that never had anything to do with her, and my husband took her in as his own. He was at the hospital when she was born 12 years ago. I didn't think it was significant at the time, but now, 8 years later, we are married with 2 other children and i like the fact that he was there on the day of my oldest's birth as well. I have pictures of him holding her as a new born. Funny, huh? Sometimes the universe knows more than we do. .....
2007-04-09 08:18:15
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answered by braves, yankees & saints fan 3
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actually i married my soulmate and wouldnt trade him for the world .. hes the love of my life .. i have 2 beautiful children with him... we have been together 6 years but married for 3 years .. on the other had u gotta do what u gotta do .. if u not in love with ur husband any more get out while you can and if u got a soulmate that u love to death .. be with him ... good luck hun and be happy ..... i know i am ..
2007-04-09 08:10:39
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answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5
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I believe there are soulmates. Would I leave my husband if I found mine? No.
2007-04-09 08:26:15
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answered by MsV 1
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I don't know if there is such a thing as a soul mate.
I at one time would have agreed with you about marrying a soul mate and thought I had, all to find later in life there are no soul mates.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-09 08:12:59
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answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5
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yes there is such thing as a soul mate..and I did exactly that.
My marriage was extremely rocky for years so when the opportunity arose and the situation turned from friendship to love then I told my spouse the truth, we separated, I went to live with my soul mate..and that's where I still am.
2007-04-09 08:54:07
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answered by kim 3
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Well, I heard Sylvia Brown once say that we never marry our soul mate.............but, I truely love my husband and I know that he is my other half, and no I would never leave my husband, he is the best and we have a child together, he means the world to us.
2007-04-09 08:15:35
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answered by buckeyefever7 4
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I married my soullmate; last summer.
Was in a long term relationship before that, but for some reason. my heart would not allow me to marry him.
This one was a no brainer; and we are very, very happy.
2007-04-09 10:44:14
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answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6
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