I am going to turn 20 later on this year, i am finishing my first year in college and every thing if going great. But seriously I have never been kissed by a boy/man/ what ever... the male gender, and as you can assume i have not had a bf (ever)or been on a date or any of the other stuff you can think of. .. Do you the people of the web think this is weird.
I know i am not gay,(for some people have said that for my lack of a male companion ) I have guy friends and girl friends, and i feel comfortable were i am now, it doesn't both me. I was born without a dude i can die with out one. But most of the people who find out that i have never had a bf of been kissed at my age think its pretty weird. Whats your opinion? and why do you think this? Please only serious answers.
2007-04-09 17:18:54 · 6 answers · asked by quileter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hehe sounds cute :D n there's nothing wrong with u. each person need his/her own time for everything so u don't have to worry. everything will happen at the right time :D
2007-04-09 17:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is weird! And you're not weird and pay any attention to those said it is. As long you know its not true. Some times it take some longer than other to experience their first kiss. Well, most people had their first kiss in their pre-teen or sophomore in high school. When share this information with others that you haven't been kiss by a boy nor have a boy friend. They compare you with themselves and quickly to judge you. They have gave in to peer pressure (to be in with the norm) so they won't be judge or be called weird or worst name.
I would suggest to you, is not let the get under your skin about it. When the right time, right place, right guy, and right situation. You will have your first kiss and boy friend. Just go on with your every day life and you time will come. Keep your chin up and you will be ok. Good luck
2007-04-10 01:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple of people that are our age and never had bfs or gfs and haven't kissed or done anything like that with someone. So it's not really weird. Maybe you will find someone special in college. It's not a huge deal I kinda wish I had waited for marriage to be serious with someone.
2007-04-10 00:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by snakeysilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you're not letting it get you down...
But in all seriousness I think you're friends are onto something. Do you hide away in your room alot ? I hope not.
You need to try to get out more, and socialize. It's not healthy (who cares about ''cool'') to not have had ANY experience at you age. Try to get out there. Clubs. Acitivities. Sports. ANYTHING.
2007-04-10 00:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats fine! You don't have to be like all the others. If everyone was the same than the world would be bland! Be yourself and do not mind what the others think!!
Good Luck!
2007-04-10 00:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by PCM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not weird you will find someone in your own time if you really want a man i give you props for staying "clean" good luck and god bless
2007-04-10 00:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋