We moved in too soon. We have only been together a few months. Ever since we found out that she was pregnant she has just been really irritable towards me. i try to be nice and sweet. When i am, she reacts meanly so i respond with the same thing. I dont know if its another guy. Ill be damned if shes sleeping with another guy while she is pregnant with my child.
2007-04-09 16:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by patsfanmartin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, when a girl is pregnant, there are all sorts of hormones going through her... it may be that. plus, how old is she? and, if you did really get in the same house and stuff too soon, it could be stress.... stress is a major cause of stuff like this... plus, being pregnant with all the hormones, being under stress cause everything is happening to soon and fast, i mean, it is a lot to take... you have to talk to her and make sure she understands how you feel, and if she is mean to you no matter what you say, and you truly say it nicely, there is really nothing you can do..... cause, afterall, she has the baby inside, and like... i mean, there is just so muh you can do, and if she cant come to her senses and deal with stuff, you cant do anymore than try to reason with her...... goodluck.
btw, being pregnant is a pain... just try to remember the hormone stuff and that a lot of women do get REALLY moody during pregnancy.... i wouldnt worry too much about her sleeping with another man while being pregnant tho... its possible, and you may wanna keep an eye out for it still, in fact, do..... but dont worry about it and let it get to you until you have more evidence of it.... try to trust in her...
and you know if she still loves you if you trust in her, and believe inside that she does... you should know she loves you, even when shes mad at you, if she really does love you, and you love her back. thats the only true way to know.
2007-04-09 16:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by mdrieber00013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs her space because you know....HoRmoNessss!!!
I don't think that the problem is another guy....two reasons for that.
First if the baby wasn't yours and the father wanted to get involved she'd just tell you to get out of her life because she wants to live with him.She wouldn't have a reason to ask you to move out and still be together...she would just break up with you and she would live with the other guy.
Second if the baby wasn't yours but the father didn't want to get involved she would try to keep you as close as possible to make sure that she'll have a father for her baby....she wouldn't kick you out!
SO in my opinion don't even mention the "other guy" thing cause you'll just make her MaaaaaD!!!
Be patient...give her space and some time to realise that she really needs you near her...you'll be surprised:-)
2007-04-09 23:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jen C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just blame the hormones, man. Don't let her anger escalate, and don't do ANYTHING to provoke her. If she yells at you, a simple "Yes ma'am, you're right," will fix everything. After that happens a couple of times, she'll get bored of yelling at you.
Make sure that she knows that despite the physical separation between you two, you can still be there for her. Take her baby-shopping, come over to her new place and tidy up, etc.
And for goodness sake, don't let her catch on to your suspicions. If she is having an affair, then she'll just cut ties with you. If she isn't, she'll never forgive you.
2007-04-09 23:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is either hormonal or is getting pressure from someone else.
Be nice to her. And ask her what the deal is. If you are the dad and you want to be in the baby's life and give the baby a chance, then she needs to let you be there to take care of her now and the baby when it is born.
Good Luck
2007-04-09 23:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from but things went fast with you guys from the beginning. There's not much you can do about who she sleeps with. Just try to be there for her and find out where you stand in the picture. Your focus should be on your baby that's coming and being it's daddy. Hope things turn out good for you!
2007-04-09 23:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregos can be crazy it's just hormones if she wants you out get out. But, maybe it's just too soon. Ya know just cuz you have a baby now is no reason to have to be together. My baby's daddy and I have never lived together and we are just fine being apart. Ya know? Don't love someone just for the baby she'll know and she will feel like crapola.
2007-04-09 23:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by thenoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she is serious about you moving out...if she is then move out. She might just need space, or just freaking out about the entire thing and needs a little time to think things through.
Be very patient and be there for her when she needs you.
2007-04-09 23:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then how will you know if the child is yours?
or maybe she is a bit upset having a baby out of marriage.
usually pregnant women really is snobby.
you have to try to understand her and ask her out if she still loves you.
2007-04-09 23:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, her hormones are going WILD and not everything she says is really what she means.
When she is calm, talk to her.
A scary thing is, you are already jumping to a conclusion that there is another guy is involved. It really is a time to sit down and have a talk - when she is level headed and calm.
2007-04-09 23:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant women are crazy...lots of hormones. You have to honor her wishes, though. Just keep connected to her for the childs sake. It's the child that should come first now.
2007-04-09 23:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋