2007-04-09 16:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes it's both... I would say that on a whole I am "happily married", because at the end of the day, the good usually outwieghs the bad. I think that is all we can hope for, don't you?
2007-04-09 16:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your other question and I guess you are trying to see if other couples are married and happy. First this is a poor sampling. Anyone can say what they want and it certainly is not a good number of opinions.
OK so you cheated on your wife with another woman and now want out of the marriage. First, won't you always wonder if this woman with whom you cheated will cheat on you? She obviously does not take the marriage vows seriously. Second, every marriage has its up and downs- no exception- maybe an exception would be to which the degree they are. You need to grow up. IMHO you could leave your wife, which would probably be better for her in the long run, as you are also a cheater. But you could also mature and realize that unless there is something so horribly wrong with your marriage e.g alcoholism, abuse, etc., it is not worth leaving. The feelings you have for the new woman will eventually wear off over time as they did with your wife. I think that unless you grow up, be honest, and do the right thing you are going to end up dying an old man-alone. p.s. Better hope you're in good health b/c your cheater girlfriend will take off at the first sign of anything that will be trouble for her. Think about all this.
2007-04-09 16:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by angelina123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going to be honest. I am married. I am happy, but Im not happily married. I didn't marry the man that I should have married. We married out of convienece, and hope. Why, Im not exactly sure. He gives me the impression that he is happy, but I know that he can't be. We love each other, I think that he is in love with me more than Im in love with him. The man that I wanted to marry, the man I still love, loves me too. But out of respect for my husband, I would never cheat on him. EVER. If it ever got to the point to where I thought that I would, I would leave first. It's not fair to him. I look at it like this. Happiness is acheivable, no matter what is thrown your way. It's up to you. When the time is right for happiness and love, then you will know. But don't jump into one or the other. Do both.
2007-04-09 16:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by who knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily married. Why? We're still in love. We work well together. We crack each other up on a daily basis. We have the same dreams and goals. We make beautiful children. We know that we each have things to teach each other and we both try to learn those things. He's amazing.
2007-04-09 16:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been happily married for almost six years. He is the most loving wonderful man that i've ever met. He is a wonderful father too.(which makes me love him that much more.)
2007-04-09 16:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by twilabrwn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally happily married for almost 18 years.
2007-04-09 22:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married with a few unhappy days here and there. No marriage is peachy all the time.
2007-04-09 16:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily. I married the kindest person I've ever met
2007-04-09 16:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by MARCUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily married for more than 20yrs, why because
she loves me, is good to me, supports me, is with
me in my ups and downs, communicates with me,
and most of all because she is my wife.
2007-04-09 18:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNhappily married...husb is cheating
2007-04-09 16:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by dƒ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋