I want her to leave him alone! Does she lack all self respect or what?

Question

my fiance's ex still won't back off. She still contacts his sisters weekly and asks them about my fiance and if he's happy. She even called his cousin asking him to call my fiance and find out if he thinks about her and if he still has feelings for her. Wtf? They've been broken up for 2.5 yrs and him and I have been together now for 1.5 yrs. Shouldn't she have gotten over him by now? She found out we were getting married and has been emailing him lately asking if he was really ready to get married and telling him not to rush into anything. He won't respond to her emails or her questions, but she won't stop. How do I get rid of her?

Answer 1

Ether he hasn't told her what she needs to hear, or you've got something serious there that a restraining order might help. But something sinister is going on her... one thing is the sister... now ether his sister is just as crazy as this girl, or she isn't that crazy... same for the cousin thing, ether the cousins just as crazy or this girl really isn't that messed up. You have to understand its hard to be friends at all with a truely crazy person and why his sister and cousin would still be stringing this crazy person along makes no sense.... now what makes perfect sense is your man there has something going on in the background... doesn't have to mean sex... but he is stringing her along some how... if not him the whole have his sister to talk to and the cousin to call, along with an email address is giving her confused signals... its confusing me... I mean if she is that crazy, I'd change phone numbers and make sure no one in my family talks to her... it seems he really isn't trying all that hard... be suspicious of this... because when its all said and done the only person that gaurentees this lady well be gone, is that fiance of yours. She has to be getting mix signals in there somewhere, because if not that is one mean sister and cousin to keep playing her along... something tells me its not that simple....