My boyfriend stands me up all the time and always had an excuse as to why he did it. It got to the point where I got tired of it and broke up with him, but we decided to still try to friends. However, now he says he wants try and make things right so we can get back together, but he still stands me up constantly. I mean what's up with him? I told him to erase my number out his phone and he asked me if thats wat I really wanted and I told him yeah and we got off the phone, but he called back and asked me again if I wanted that and convinced me that it was a misunderstanding as to why he stood me up again. At that point I didn't know what to do so I was just like whatever about the whole thing. I mean I know I have feelings for him and he says he loves me but I don't believe that and I tell him that, but he keeps saying it. We're not having sex but I don't know what he really wants from me.
2007-04-09 15:31:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you put up with this? Are you his playtoy to toss
around and use to his advantage? Girl if you take this now,
what's in your future? Dump him!!!
2007-04-09 15:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is up with him is he is using you. The only reason he wanted back, is for greater access and nothing more. Of course you were either clueless or accommodating.
He doesn't love you and has show that to you, however you don't want to see it. Does a house need to hit you in the head before you understand?
2007-04-09 15:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know whats easier than having HIM erase your number? Dont answer when he calls. Standing someone up shows a total lack of respect. One time is forgivable but more than that is a pattern that boarders on abuse. Why should you invest any more time into someone who refuses to invest the time into you?
2007-04-09 15:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Brian C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you, just trying to see how far he can push you and how much he can get away with. He's probably getting off on the fact that he keeps being able to 'talk you back into a relationship with him'. He's a jerk and probably Narcassistic, this relationship is not about you, it's about his control over you.
Drop him and don't look back!!!!
2007-04-09 15:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it like you are just his rebound girl. whenever he is not happy in any other relationship or strikes out, he comes back to you. Tell him no and mean it. Stop answering his phone calls and maybe change your # maybe he will get the hint.
2007-04-09 15:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing head games.
2007-04-09 15:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by ANGEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he is playing games or he thinks of you as a pawn in his game of chase
2007-04-09 15:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him! he obviously doesnt sound like the type of guy who deserves your time.
2007-04-09 15:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing with your mind. he is an asshole trust me. dump this shithead. he does not care about you and stop being his puppet.
2007-04-09 15:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by babeecakes510 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants sex... he wants you as a booty call ... my advice ... run
2007-04-09 15:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋