My sex drive is so high the guy I am dating can't keep up but this guy I used to date keeps me satisfied?

Question

I have some serious drama going on so listen up and don't be a azz when answering my question.. Well I am always giving out advice about what people should do but I kinda got myself in this situation and I am having a hard time getting threw it. Here it goes!! I ran into an old friend of mines whom I used to date and well the only thing good in the relationship was the sex. Not to get grahic but he is so into me when we are having sex and he just takes me out of my element like one night he took me out for dinner when it was warm out and the sprinklers was on well he put me on his back and carried me across the wet grass to keep my toes from getting wet I mean we have ruff sex, make love and cuddle he even licks my toes. Well the problem is we both met other people while we have been apart and yes we hooked back up even though we knew we were with other people but I think I may love him.. What do I do I mean how do I stop thinking about him when I really want him?? I so attracted 2 him

Answer 1

You can't, chance are pretty good that you love him more then the new guy. Problem is that the relationship isn't exactly intimate. Yea you guys have nice, ruff sex, but unfornately thats only part of a relationship. Wouldn't seem ether one of you have quite figured that out, even know it seems obvious that deep down you know that to be true. So your going to keep hitting this brink wall over and over again hoping it well take that next step you need out side of the physical intimacy. Doubt you guys well be able to pull that off because the way your treating your other partners shows that you don't epasize well with other people. That your more or less out just for yourselves and the relationship you guys had allowed you to fulfill these intentions of loving yourselves and not each other. If not then it wouldn't of gone this far.... your not really in love with him as much as what he can do for you, so your only way thru this is to go with him and try to actual make a deep, fullfilling relationship. Or go try and develop a relationship with someone new... good luck, its so much easier with someone who knows how to give you the ego bust you need. I know this to be true because of the way you've been playing with the "love" part of it. You've had all these experience's with him and more or less everything you've said about it is physical. Were's the emotion, the compassion, I can see some passion, but people do some crazy things for things they want, how do you know it wasn't just your womenhood he had all that passion for?

Answer 2

Call me...I take your mind off of him.