2007-04-09 13:52:28 · 38 answers · asked by cool dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, I just wanted to commend you on saving yourself. That is SOOO rare and really amazing. (I'm doing it too and you don't find a lot of people like that!)
2007-04-09 13:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by ladywood128 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Of course sex is fun, our bodies are designed to make it so.
Usually the male has more fun, unless they know that the woman needs to be sexually stimulated longer before intercourse takes place. But, if done properly sex is very fun. This a way that evolution has to insure that the species will continue to breed and so survive.
It is immoral to have sex at your age because you are not old enough or mature enough to make that decision and you won't be until you finish at least high school. I can't explain why you aren't able to make the decision because part of the reason why is what makes it so difficult to describe it to you.
I can say this that having sex and risking the chance of creating a baby are not things to be taken lightly. You need to use pregnancy protection with both partners to insure that an unwanted baby won't be born since that is one of the worst kinds of child abuse that can happen. Even if you are 16 and think you are old enough to have sex you are not mature enough to make proper decisions. Once you reach the age of 21 then you will understand the reasons and why I can't explain them to you. I know it is hard to do this, but I can only say that you have to trust me on this and you have to trust your parents. Teenagers think that they know everything they need to know, but they don't know enough to make that decision and the experience that they need takes time and maturity.
2007-04-09 14:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is overrated, what really matters in a relationship is the bond and friendship you create, sex is merely a way of showing affection and truely connecting with the person you love. After the honeymoon stage of most relationships, sex dies off over theyears, and all thats left is that friendship. So make sure whomever you marry is your friend before they are your lover.
And yes it can be fun while it lasts.
2007-04-09 13:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can be fun with the right person. It is a good idea to save it. You want the first and every time to be with someone special.
2007-04-09 13:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fun if done with someone you care about but it can be mind blowing when it is with the right person, one you know well, are best friends with and know that you both feel the same way with each other. Love is a powerful thing, the sex part is great but its the closness that you share always that is the best.
2007-04-09 13:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but your decision to wait is wonderful. Unless you are in a truely commited and loving relationship don't even consider it. People change once they start having sex, especially when you are younger. Go you!!! for deciding you want to wait and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
2007-04-09 13:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by starkitty0707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait about 3-4 years and give it a try and see for yourself.
2007-04-09 14:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u said it wrong little dude, u mean your waiting to have sex till u get married... good idea.. no its not fun, its horrible, especially if your girlfriend has 2 stomachs and a chin that hangs down to her shoulders
2007-04-09 13:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wonderful that you are saving yourself. It is fun with the right person.
2007-04-09 13:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not as much fun as innocents and comfort in the knowledge that you are doing the right thing pleasing God and remaining faithful to the good of your future.
2007-04-09 13:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋