The other day i called him, but couldnt say a word. Just heard his voice n hung up. Im sure he knows it me. I feel v guilty yet tempted to try again. Shud i?
2007-04-09 14:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Bombay B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Surley there is a reason why you are no longer together. And there is also a reason why you married your husband too. I think about people in my past to, and these are the things that I have to keep in mind when my mind does go wondering.
2007-04-09 14:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by m254535773 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can lie you yourself but don't lie to us because we no better.It is impossible to be happily married and be thinking of someone else.Something is wrong somewhere in your marriage.I f you want to wreck your marriage then by all means call the other man,set up a time to meet talk about the good times have some drinks while your at it .Then go do something really stupid and sleep together just for old time sake.Go home to your happy marriage and look your husband in the eyes,how was your day honey.
2007-04-09 22:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be happily married and still trying to call other men? You dont sound happy and before starting a potential affair maybe you should try to figure out what is wrong with your marriage and see if its fixable first and if its not be fair to your husband and let him go before doing something you cant take back that will hurt him for the rest of his life like an affair.
2007-04-09 21:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me from past experiences let it go. its not worth ending a marriage over. marriage should be for ever. don't let an old crush ruin it. i've been married 25 yrs. i did what you are wanting to and even went a little bit further if you know what i mean . i almost lost the true love of my life. you will definetely be sorry if you go through with it. he is just a lust for you. DON'T DO IT!!!!!
2007-04-09 21:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by rileyc 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
research the word "Commitment". If you want to persue the relationship with a ghost from your past, complete the relationship you are in now. That is only fair to your spouse.
2007-04-09 21:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard. I have been married a long time. I to have thought about someone else. someone who may be my soulmate. but I fight from calling or contacting her. I think she is moved on and what good would it do?
2007-04-09 21:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by tom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your happily married you would'nt of even called
theres something wrong if your okay with yourself
2007-04-09 21:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're not that happily married.
2007-04-10 02:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're still wanting to call this other person. you should "strongly" reconsider that use of "happliy married."
2007-04-09 21:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by chich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋