All men don't stare at pretty women!!!?

Question

I was just reading a topic about "Why do men stare at pretty women?" And the truth is, all men don't. I have to give it to my fiance'. When we're out and about he gives me his full attention. One time while we we're out, a beautiful young lady walked by and he turned to me and said, you are so beautiful to me. It's like they're not even in the room :). Yeah, sometimes he may glance, but it's not a "DAMN" glance, it's a "another person just walked in the door" glance. You feel me? I don't stare either. I think it is very disrespectful and rude to your partner. Yes, God did make beautiful human beings out there, but if you are married or in a serious relationship, that doesn't mean you have to lust after every women or man you see. I hate to be out and see a man who is with his lady stare me down. YULK! Grow up!!!

Answer 1

As a happily married man, yes I may notice a
pretty woman pass by but it is never anything to
disrespect my wife weather she is with me or not
because I love my wife and I am an honest and
faithful husband. There are some women that want
a man to look at them intentionally by their actions
and those I ignore totally because to me they do
not deserve even a glance because they think
that they are all that.

Answer 2

I think you have a very generous and healthy attitude towards your man and in giving him the benefit of the doubt and enjoying the fact that he does his best to make you feel good you are waaay ahead of those bitter women who insist all men are dogs and stare hungrily at every woman that passes by. I think you and your fiance have a lot of joy ahead of you as long as you continue to take care of each other like that.

As for men staring; well most men don't 'stare' (staring has a rude connotation). On the other hand, men are more visual creatures than women, and unconsciously we are programmed to look if an attractive woman passes by. This is not a sign of shallowness or disrespect, and it means nothing whatsoever. It also is not done in a rude or prying manner.

Expecting that a man will always avert his eyes to the ground is actually a cruel and unrealistic expectation. We are humans too (not inferior or slaves), and deserve to be treated with dignity; just because we are built and wired differently doesn't make us wrong.

Anyway sounds like you and your fiance both have the right attitude. Good luck to you both!

Answer 3

I agree 100%. My husband doesn't stare either, just does a normal glance. All men don't stare contrary to popular belief. And I always felt bad when a man would look at me with his woman next to him, it is embarassing. I am glad to hear my husband isn't the only one that finds it pointless to constantly drool over other women when his woman is with him. It is hurtful when men do this, it is very distructive to their significant other, especially when their significant other may have some hangup(s) about their personal appearance. Like what the other people are saying, if he is doing while I am gone, that is his perrogitive (though he denies it to me). As long as when I am there I have his attention, its all good.

Answer 4

Well where in the hell did you find him? Alot of women would like to know! lol And yes I agree about the disrespect. Some men just don't get it and I can't stand when a man is out with his woman and he is eyeballin me. That is so rude and I feel like punching him. My husband does alot of lusting but he got issues anyway so I really don't worry too much about it anymore. And I'm just like you...I don't STARE at other men...I think it's really rude when you are with your man. People always want to say "oh it's natural to look at other people that you find attractive." Yeah yeah I know but some people dont know how to be respectful about it and that's something alot of people don't like to admit to. It's rude and disrespectful...plain and simple!

Answer 5

My boyfriend is the same way. He says at least 10 times a day....... "you are the most beautiful woman in the world". He says I'm his perfect idea of a woman. He makes me feel so good. I've never caught him even stealing a glance at another woman. He gives me his full attention. In return he gets mine.

Answer 6

My man did this but he stared, he also when he did nt realize I could hear him on a gambling boat made a statement to a guy we went up there with thet
WOW THERE ARE SOME FOX's HER.. BUT I AM HERE WITH PEGGY...I was behind him, he did not know it...Till I told him what I heard him say. he was and is my husband. IT HURT IT STILL DOES, I never got over it, I am happy for you Lady.......My Man is a pig and I wish once I could make him feel what I felt that night.

I was CRUSHED.................................

Answer 7

Think you need to grow up as well. If a man told you that he don't stare at pretty women, something must be wrong with him or he is lying to you. Of course most men don't stare at pretty women when their partner is with them. But when they are out alone or with a group of men, I can bet with you, they will definitely stare at pretty women.

Answer 8

HI HUN, WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I GO OUT, WE KIND OF JOKE ABOUT IT WHEN A PRETTY LADY WALKS BY. HE LOOKS, I PUNCH HIM, THEN WE LAUGH. I THINK IT'S OK BECAUSE WE ARE VERY MUCH IN LOVE AND HAVE TRUST. IT WOULDN'T BE NORMAL IF THEY DIDN'T LOOK. SOMETIMES I MIGHT SPOT A PRETTY GIRL, AND SAY, "HUN CHECK HER OUT" AND HE MAKES SOME KIND OF FUNNY CUTE NOISE AND WE JUST KEEP WALKING. SO WHEN YOU HAVE TRUST AND LOVE, IT IS OK TO LOOK. NOW TOUCHING IS A WHOLE DIFFERENT SUBJECT!! LOOKING IS OK, IT IS VERY NORMAL. I MIGHT LOOK BUT I DON'T FEEL ANYTHING, AS FAR AS LUST OR WISHING I WAS WITH THEM. IT'S VERY NORMAL, WE ARE ONLY HUMAN.

Answer 9

You're right. All men look - some just look more stupid doing it.
Mine doesn't make it obvious and I respect that.

Answer 10

Well kudos to your fiance, but I ASSURE you that he is staring at them the minute you are not around, if he isn't, check his sexuality. Sorry it is how the hetero male species work.