My ex left me for another girl. He was my first love and even though that was ****** up I still love him and want him back. Doesn't look like he wants me back though. We kinda still talk but not really. It hurts like ******* crazy and I don't know how to move on...Should I move on or hope that we might get back together again?
Please don't give any smart *** answers and make me feel worse. I'm asking for help to feel better not worse.
2007-04-09 10:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by Vexi_Lexi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to say it but its time to move on. this is gunna sound really lame but you can only love someone so much and then its time to turn around and start caring about yourself. what you need to do is get rid of everything that makes you constantly think about him. any pictures a sweatshit, delet his phone number, email and any other way to contact him. just let him go. know you deserve something better, someone better. and you will find them in due time. if i were you i would start doing things for you, go out with your friends, manicures moive makeovers everything take your mind off of it.
good luck
2007-04-17 05:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was with my ex for 4 year he cheated on me after 3 and i stayed with him because i loved him. well we split up and i did the leaving but it was crazy cause i missed him like crazy and didnt know what to do. I loved him and still do to an extent as in if he needs something i will be there for him and he always has a place in my heart ( i was 14 and he was 15 when we got together) we grew together. but now i relize things are better. My boyfriend now is amazing and if i was in love with my ex this is heaven. The way i found to help me move on was i went out with my friends worked like crazy (drank alot for awhile not a good idea u only think of them more and end up calling them at 3am lol) i stayed busy until i didnt think about him all the time. Then i just started flirting like crazy and "dating" guys. They only lasted a week or two cause i knew i didnt want to settle for any bullshit. When i got tired of that i stop dating with no point (besides to have fun) and started looking for mr right. Which i found by accident really. good luck and trust me it gets a little better and easier every day. oh and if he left u for another girl he is worth ur time!
2007-04-17 17:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you've got it ~ it's time to move on. How do you move on? By taking it moment by moment and day by day.
You'll live to experience much more. Use the self respect you already have; would you want a close friend or sister to stay with someone like that?
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2007-04-11 14:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to remove everything that reminds you of him from your life and then sit with how you feel and let yourself wallow. it's harder to move on when you keep pushing yourself to even though you aren't ready/don't want to. Don't get involved with other guys just to take this one off your mind because that only creates heartache. Surround yourself with people who love you and make you happy, keep yourself busy with extra activities and such.
2007-04-17 17:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A line to live by, every time life throws you a curve ball, or you have a desire, ask yourself which applies!
" As a rule, mans a fool.
when it's hot, he wants it cool.
When it's cool he wants it hot.
Always wanting what it's not. " Author Unkn.
and if you find yourself undecided , Wait.
2007-04-17 17:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by tom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you kno i would wait cuz my ex decided we should break up and i thought we should to so then he started going out with my cousin and he said he n e thing happens between them he might asked me back out so i would wait jus like i am....
2007-04-17 17:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lil brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋