The term "let" as used in this post, is intended to infer that her doing so against your will is a knowing decision on her part to terminate the relationship.
2007-04-09 11:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone please STOP ASSUMING that I am in or have been in this situation or that I have made any indication of my personal preference on the matter, if I have a personal preference on the matter.
This is for academic curiosity. Not for anything that would in any pertain to a real situation involving me. I want to know what YOU think.
2007-04-09 11:37:52 · update #1
I say NO WAY, keep her body for yourself! You dont want her showing her stuff all over town. And for some plastic beads no less.
2007-04-09 11:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by AyeVivi 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day, you already know the answer to this question, however I'll try to give you my opinion, hope it helps!
It all comes down to how confident you are with yourself, your relationship and your personal views! If your girlfriend wants to flash a few/many people for some beeds all in the name of fun and with some beers in her, then it comes down to how you feel about it! Clearly she wants to and would love the attention! Are you OK with her getting that attention, and is that all she wants?
If it is a case that she wants a lot of people looking at her and she doesn't really care how it makes you feel, then maybe you're both on different pages and should seriously talk! or move on, if she really wants to do something and you stop her, then chances are it'll fester inside her, piss her off and when you least expect it, it'll blow up in your face. However if you 'let' her flash then maybe you can leverage a little trip to Victoria Secrets later on! It's all give and take!
2007-04-09 11:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mathew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. They're not your boobs, they're hers - so you're not really in a position to "let" her do or not do anything with her own body.
2. Against your will? See 1 above.
3. Are you that insecure that a funtime flash during one of the biggest parties on earth is going to make or break the relationship? What's she going to do? Run off with the giant pinata of Bart Simpson? You sound like a lot of fun.
At the end of the day, if she likes to flash her boys at Mardi Gras and this is an issue that you will break up over - then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship together as you clearly want different things.
Oh - and I would no problem with my girl letting the baby feeders fly.
2007-04-09 11:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by mantoothnation 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Some girls are more open than others. Some think it is ok and others do not. But if she does this it is her will and if you are with her you need to accept her for who she is. You went with her to this and did not know she was this way? Get for real! Let her get wild then go back to the hotel and take it out on you! If you have such a problem maybe you should've went snow sking but that would have just put off you not wanting to see who she really is.
2007-04-09 11:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't have "control" over my fiance that way -- and even if I did, "If you flash at Mardi Gras I'll break up with you," is stupid and petty. We do much worse things than that.
And whether or not it's disrespectful, that's what you expect. If you don't want that, communicate to your significant other that Mardi Gras is not an appropriate place to be if you're in a committed relationship. It's a party, and they're just breasts.
(Your question is the equivalent of asking "would you let your husband look at flashers at mardi gras"? If you're there, oh, pl-ease.)
2007-04-09 12:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
That question was already followed by your own selfish answer, so why did you ask?. Sounds to me like YOU need to understand that you cannot control another persons actions with your own ultimatums. If you "forbid" a woman to do something of her own free will, you're just asking to be put in your place! For God's sake, have you never MOONED anyone? or done anything impulsive just because you wanted to? Grow UP!!! Bet you'd be one of the guys out there THROWING the beads if your gf wasn't there now wouldn't you?
2007-04-09 11:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From a woman's perspective, it's not up to my husband or bf to LET me do anything. I am going to do what I want to do. He doesn't own me.
With that said, I'm not that kind of person that I would flash for beads out of respect to my husband/bf.
2007-04-09 11:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. It would be in direct violation to the wedding vows, that she agreed to, when she married you. ("to forsake all others....")......
If you thought that she would flash at Madri gras, then don't take her there. There are plenty of single girls there, that enjoy showing their boobs, so let them do their thing.
Pretty cheap price for showing her boobs...a 39c string of plastic beads.
2007-04-09 12:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the term "let" in your question is to imply that you can control the actions of another adult. What gives you the right to "LET" someone do anything. If your wife / girlfriend wants to flash at Mardis Gras who do you think you are to try and stop that behavior.
I don't own my wife, I live with her.
2007-04-09 11:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by rob c 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If I were a man I would have to say no. As a woman, I woudl not do it in the first place.
2007-04-09 11:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋