Do you respect a girl more if you know that shes a virgin?
And is saving herself for the right guy (not necessarily religious)
Whats your overall opinion? Do you think of her in a more positive light? More negative light?
2007-04-09 09:17:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im confused, help
2007-04-09 09:28:39 · update #1
Of course I'd think of her in a positive light. That is a sign of character and morality. It tells me that she's not willing to sleep around with any random guy. She's interested in quality, in a meaningful relationship rather than "sowing her wild oats". She is very attractive. If you are a virgin, I applaud you and recommend you keep waiting for the right guy. (And waiting for when you're married isn't such a bad thing either.)
2007-04-09 09:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Considering all the ways a woman can lose her virginity with not having sex, most all men are quite innocent with regards to even knowing if a woman is a virgin. How true it is "what he does not know won't hurt him" and, he surely will respect a woman if believing she is a virgin. In essence, virginity tells of "quality" in the minds of a man while also he knows a woman can lose hers from simply riding a horse or a bicycle.
Now that all the men in the world have found out that females really do masturbate sort of lessens the mystery of virginity in the minds of men and it seems no longer the issue our parents led us to believe.
Of the other aspect...a woman that has experienced sexual intercourse will draw variable thoughts from men. Unless she was married, a man would be concerned of just how much experience the woman has had and with how many men.
Men can handle "dent and scratched" merchandise but are not attracted to well used merchandise unless for just more of the same. Virginity is not really an issue here...quality is !
If a girl has been saving herself, men appreciate that as it truly does reflect quality. However, if she plans to "save" herself until the honeymoon then she may have a problem. That idea got burried with great-grandma. When a man is ready to commit it appears he is ready for anything and expects the woman to be just as ready.
I feel that men see women in a positive way whether they are virgins or not and, if the woman is a virgin, it is but something of innosence he will enjoy even more. He will respect either until he has reason not to.
2007-04-09 09:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by farplaces 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right guy. I admire that. I don't know why more people hold onto their virginity.
Whether a gal is a virgin or not does not make her any less of a person, or more of a person. It shouldn't matter though. If a guy loves a gal for who she is, that's the only thing that matters.
2007-04-09 09:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter to you what a guy thinks of virginity? Shouldn't you be the only person whose opinion counts?
Personally, I never saw any correlation between virginity and morals and values and virtues and self-respect. Virginity is about sex and sexual experience, or the lack thereof. That's it.
I can certainly respect anyone who wants to remain a virgin until whatever time for whatever reason. It's just not a choice that I made, nor a choice that I would place significant value on. But none of that should have any influence on your personal decisions concerning your life and no one else's.
2007-04-09 09:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do. I wish things weren't like they are today because girls seem to start earlier and earlier. If more people stayed virgins longer they could make decisions as adults and not young adults or kids and it would be easier to make the right decisions for your life because you would know what you want. If I knew a girl was a virgin and I liked her I would be very happy, but I also know girls that were virgins when they got married and cheated because the thought they might be missing out on something, so I think it is a double edged sword, but being a virgin is cool in my book.
2007-04-09 09:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by sarkasmik209 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A virgin is a very special person.(wise and smart)Some men would love to find and keep her.Others would love to use and abuse,then leave them.(get what they want and break her heart).
I personally respect that and many other things.If saving herself is what she wants,I say more power to you!You shouldn't give in if you've made it this far.
On the other hand,if your not a virgin don't be ashamed or guilty.
2007-04-09 09:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tony R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider it either way. Fact is it would probably freak me out a bit, put too much pressure on me. I would want someone that has experience, makes for more fun. Of course I wouldn't want someone that has done everyone in town either. It's not a fine line, but there are boundaries.
2007-04-09 09:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately, Most guys don't care about if she is still a virgin. But for me personally i would love to date and marry a virgin.
2007-04-09 09:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Trevor Richardson 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yes ofcourse i do because now in days it so hard to fight temptations and bodily desires, I mean to not have sex untill you find the one is a real big deal thats very impresive most woman dont do that but I find that quite admirable.
2007-04-09 09:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by FunDude#1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter at all to me. I'm not a virgin, why should I expect her to be?
2007-04-09 09:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋