well i'm 22 years old. i think i have hit my sexual peak!! i want to do it all the time. i think about it all the time.. at work in the street at home!! every where!! but the good thing is that i only think about my bf. he turns me on soooo much. the scent of his skin makes me go crazy!! so i am always telling him i want to do it and when we do it's great!! the problem is that i don't think he wants it as much as i do. it's like a chore to him or something. i am too sexual and i want to try a lot of things but it's like he doesn't like to. i am an attractive girl and i know he wants me but why is he like this.... am i the one who isn't normal? what can i do to stop thinking about sex? i just want it all the time..... i don't want this becoming a problem.... can anyone help?
2007-04-09 10:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by gaby5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I actually had a problem like this with a girl once. its not that you have a problem, I was the same way as the girl but she just kept telling me she wanted to "do it" we had sex like 3 times a day but i was forcing it alot. then i told her instead of telling me you want to do it try different ways of seducing me. she started doing things like showing up naked to my door and going down me in public. and tons of other crazy fun stuff. once she stopped talking about "doing it" it was way more fun for me. part of the thrill of sex is not getting it so easily and having to work for it sometimes. so try holding off for a bit and teasing your bf rather than throwing it at him all the time.
If that doesnt help i think you should talk to your bf.
Hopefully that helps.
2007-04-09 10:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people's sex drives will rollercoaster during their life...high for a while, low for a while...it's not uncommon for couples to have sex drives that don't match...that doesn't mean the person with the lower sex drive doesnt' love their partner or want them, they just aren't at a high sexual point in their life (some people never have much of a "peak").
Find a compromise...it's flattering for your bf that you want him so often, and only him...but try not to get frustrated that he doesn't want sex as often as you, and don't push him about it or try to make him feel bad about it...let him know you want him, and he'll respond when he's in the right mood...
If this becomes too big of an issue it may be a deal breaker, but hopefully you two an find a compromise that will be satisfactory with regard to frequency.
2007-04-09 10:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal. There is nothing wrong with wanting it all the time, and nothing wrong with doing it all the time.
However you might not be compatible with your partners sex drive. This is important as you will be very unhappy later in life if this is true. The way he is, is the way he will be. He isn't going to change or get better, in fact he will probably get worse. You need to decide if this is acceptable for the rest of your life. If it's not, find someone new or don't complain when you are unhappy later.
There are a lot of guys out there with the same problem, trust me on this one I know from experience.
2007-04-09 10:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with wanting to do it all the time.. if you love him that much then i suggest you get some toys and use them in his absense and just dream about him... i dont know why he is not as sexually active as you as i know i would be.. but any way just masturbate a lot..
2007-04-09 10:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see why you're able to, you're able to talk to a expert because of the fact they are able that can assist you you administration your habit so as that it does not intrude negatively along with your existence anymore
2016-10-28 07:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am older than 22...and well experienced... so, if you can't solve your problem, then give me a call, and I'll be right over....
2007-04-09 15:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of me.And he reminds me of my x-wife.Find a guy that shares your appetite and adventurous spirit.Wish I wasn't old enough to be your dad.
2007-04-09 10:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a couple like this once. I had to "help her out" once in a while, and they finally got divorced.
2007-04-09 10:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋