My husband had to work in another country four months ago. We kept in touch by long distance calls. Lately he has not been calling frequently as he used to. When I asked why he did not call, he said he missed me so much, and that my voice would turn him on but he could not see me. So it would be painful to him to talk everyday to me
I don`t think this is a good excuse, because I feel better after I speak to him on the phone.
Guys, do you think he is telling the truth, or he is just not missing me enough to call me everyday?
2007-04-09 10:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by ☆Dana☆ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could be either that it is too hard, or that he is doing other things. When I was in my earlier 20's and in the Marine Corp it was easier not to call home, or my g/f. It hurt afterward. It was hard to keep my mind on what I had to do, after a call. as I have gotten older, that has changed, it was better to talk to people I cared about. just hearing someones voice would left me up. It depends on him.
2007-04-09 10:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is plausible. A guy who is cheating would most likely call ALOT more to cover for it. He does miss you, and hearing your voice reminds him of how much he misses you, which must be very tough. I hope he gets to return soon, he probably feels a little vulnerable being so far away.
2007-04-09 17:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesnt sound right here. Ok, he doesnt want to hear your voice for whatever reason, but did he break his hand too so he cant send you a card or anything or even dial a phone to send flowers. But then you know him better then we do so you must decide whats happening here and what you want to do about it. Good luck
2007-04-09 17:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally id say hes doing wrong but thats what i say because i have been cheated on alot if you have never had problems with this before than it might not be anything because you dont know what is going on where he is and really have no way to find out that is why you are questioning yourself. stop assuming and try to trust the person you love. if you were wrong and nothings going on GREAT if you were right and hes doing you wrong than you need to realize that the old saying is love hurts. good luck
2007-04-09 18:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by angela C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello,
from what i am to understand on this situation,his life & carreer have al ready destracted him away from you.meaning,if he loved & cared for you the way he says he did or dose then his carreer & job wouldnt have had a chance to take him away from you...in other words-if he loved you the way he says he dose,he wouldnt have left,not only that,but,you wouldnt have alowed him to leave had you felt the way you claim to feel for him,thats a 2 way street,& its a big world,im sure he could have found another job closer to where you were or you could have found somthing near him...ither way,there was room for compremize.......the real reason he stoped calling as much is probly because he has gotten to ocupied with whats in his emidiate reach,that he looses track of whats important to him,like his relationship & bond to you...if you have any more ?'s like this feel free to contact me at http://www.kasamba.com/Sage-Psychic-Mona-Lisa
2007-04-09 18:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by SAGE PSYCHIC MONA LISA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being paranoid... it's true.... i know what he's feeling. it's hard to talk to someone you truly miss and want to touch. and plus... it's kinda hard to call your wife when the other girl is around all the time... i mean... he only have four months with her... she wants to make the best of it.... she knows you're around... your husband probably told her.
take care... relax... it not a big deal.... i hope this honest answer helps.
2007-04-09 17:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. And why are you waiting for him to call?
The both of you should buy webcams so you could see eachother. I was in a long distance relationship for awhile and it helped alot.
2007-04-09 17:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds a little suspicious to me. When you love someone you take the time to call.
2007-04-09 17:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by janice455 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's lying First of all wouldn't he want to talk to you everyday just to see if you are alright, or what took place throughout your day. It's something else to it.
2007-04-09 17:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by KH 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds fishy to me. If he had just said he was busy or tired even that would be more believable.
2007-04-09 17:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋