and most people in marriage WOULD CHEAT if the opportunity arrises. sad but true.
2007-04-09 10:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People don't get married to cheat, usually. Sadly, today people expect perfection, and when it doesn't happen, they somehow feel they can cheat. Not everybody, but enough that it sometimes seems that everybody IS cheating. I wish I could say you were wrong.
2007-04-09 12:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why start an exercise program if you know you're going to slack off? Why move to a new city when you know you're not gonna stay there until you die? Why take a job when you might quit it later? You have to live your life in the here and now, and make your decisions in the here and now - you can't possibly base your decisions on how you think you might feel about it 10, 20, 30 years from now. Yes, some people will cheat, and some will not; some will live to the ripe old age, and some will die in a car crash. Doesn't mean that everyone should stop getting married or driving cars. You take chances no matter what you do, every day. The best way to ensure you don't make another mistake ever again is to put a bullet through your head. So stop the rhethoric, and think things over a bit. It will do you good.
2007-04-09 17:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that is the same question everyone has always wanted to know the answer to i myself would not cheat if i were married even if the opportunity arrised because it just against what i believe if i wanted to sleep with different people i wouldn't marry one person
2007-04-09 17:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for other men, but I wouldn't cheat. Many people are weak or sometimes they married too young or are not seasoned in life enough to take on the responsibility that go along with being married, and sometimes it is that LUST over LOVE, also it can be a matter of something as foolish as a need to inflate ones own ego, and sometimes its just curiosity and thinking that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
2007-04-09 17:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've divorced a cheating husband so I wonder the same thing. They say a man wont cheat if he has what he needs at home.
That's far from the truth. A cheater is like a lier, they never get over it, they seem addicted.
My ex was going with one of his other ex wives when we were married, I ask him why he didn't stay with her? He said he didn't know how he felt then.
Ok we divorced and he's still not with her. Guess she wised up too.
Cheating and lying go together like bread and butter. You see one you see the other.
2007-04-09 17:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe you mis-guided people only cheat if they do not care, respect and love the one they are with. If you have all those qualities then you shouldn't have the need to cheat. I love my wife and I could never cause that much pain and hurt to her to fool around with someone else. I think you have to
ask yourself a serious question before you marry and that is
can I be faithful and true to one for the rest of my life! If you can honestly answer that question with a yes then your ready to marry if you are not sure or totally baffled by this then you are not!
2007-04-09 17:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married because I did not and do not want to be with anyone other than my husband. I honestly meant it when I took my vows and plan to live by them. I am not saying I am above temptation, I don't believe anyone truly is. Marriage is about making a commitment and that includes keeping out of a situation where something could happen. I am very careful about how I interact with other men and do not allow myself to get into a situation where my emotions could overcome my intentions or common sense.
2007-04-10 01:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you It seems that you haven't experienced quality relationship.If you happy with your partner why you wanna cheat,you must have always some reason.It means you do not treasure what you have.Every realationship is commitment if you dont like that do not get in one.If you are in one and you feel like you need to cheat then break it up. I think marrige any close relationship is gift and not an obligation.
2007-04-09 18:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a commitment. My wife cheated, but we patched it back up. Cheating hurts, but it isn't the death knell that some people say it is. My wife didn't go into marriage thinking she would cheat, but there you go. We are still married, happier and more stable now, and I don't regret it. I would do it all again, affair and everything.
2007-04-09 17:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bit of attitude there, Joe. Been hurt in a relationship, maybe? Hmm?
Sorry that you have such a negative view of marriage that you belive "most people in a marriage would cheat..."
Such is not the case, my friend.
There are plenty of happily married couples who remain monogamous without any trouble.
Have a nice day.
2007-04-09 18:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋