What do I do?

Question

I met a guy online, He started emailing me, after I responded I didn't hear from him for 1.5 weeks so I emailed him again. He wrote the next day & apologized for not writing sooner & said he couldn't wait to talk to me. After about 2.5 weeks I hadn't heard from him so I decided to end my membership with the website & I emailed him on the site & told him that I wasn't able to continue my membership so I left him my email address & told him if he wanted to still communicate my email was the best place to get me. About a week and half later he emailed me at the dating site & said he was going to close his account too but would like to continue to chat with me & told me I could email him or call him so he gave his email address & phone number. later that day he sent me an email at my regular email address saying this is his email address. 2 days later I wrote back he emailed me the next day 3 days later I wrote him, 3 days later called him. 4 days passed and I haven't hear from him yet.

Answer 1

sounds like your talking to someone at the public library

ditch him

Answer 2

Basically he is a player. He wants you to keep calling him. But I never really trust those dating chat room things either. There isn't much I can tell you to do except maybe try to keep your mind on things and problems for a month without calling or emailing him and see if he contacts you. Other than that I would just be careful if I were you. You can't trust people in those chats.

Answer 3

Whats the question ? seems like you guys are communicating..i mean people get busy, you shouldnt expect a person to contact you the next day if he says he will call the next day..things happen, just be nonchalant and let things run its course, if its meant to happen it will..if he wasnt interested he wouldnt have bothered to write back, even if its late, he writes back and that is what counts..and by now youshould be used to him not writing back so soon..so dont worry for nothing..

Answer 4

Don't get involved with anyone online. there are way too many risks. You don't know who is really on the other end, you know? And, people will lead people on, and say things that are not true. It's not worth risking your heart over. It's easy to type words and communicate over the internet and email.
However, its not real life at all. Real life is when you spend time with someone, see and talk to them face to face. Just move on with your life and don't get played.

Answer 5

It sounds to me that he is still interested in you, which explains why he is still writing you after all of this time. However, it also sounds like you should not push things along faster. He is appraently busy with other things in his life and not having the need to write to you daily.

Let things go at a slower pace, and you may find that over time, it will pick up at a faster pace.

Answer 6

If he really cared about u he would soooo talk 2 u 24/7 so I don't think he is into u . I would give it up. Why try to be with someone if he ignores u.

Answer 7

Online u say? he is trying to get u curiouse and then all of the sudden u in a back of a truck with bloody blades dangling over you

Answer 8

Another slow learner. You won't find true love on the internet. You will find deceit, lies, and much more. Normally all bad. Be very careful meeting anyone this way.

Answer 9

You don't even know him. How could you possibly try to gauge what he's thinking? He might be busy or out of town or lost interest. Any thing's possible. You might have said something to scare him away.

Answer 10

So? Dont hang around waiting for someone, email somebody else, chat to someone else - do something else!

Answer 11

Doesn't all this counting days and keeping score make you bored? If he was seriously interested and not involved with anyone else then you wouldn't have any doubts about him.