Me and my (ex) boyfriend split up a couple of weeks ago after us not working out, he would talk to other girls on the net, arrange to meet up with them (but never did) and he was just unfaithful. He wouldnt do anything for me, he hated having to take me places, he never bought me anything ect. We was together about 13 months, during that time i opened up to him so much and he was my first love. We went through so much together. Even though every one sed im better of with out him, and even tho i knew that i cudnt leave him, and now we are carrying on as normal, he says we should still '' make love'' becuase we still love and care for each other, he still wants sex with out the realtionship part - he wants the freedom he says. Im confused, i dont know what to do. Im finding it so hard.
2007-04-09 00:03:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know its hard. and no one can tell you what to do, but you probably know that he is mistreating you. when you are truley ready, you will leave him. love keeps us hanging onto people who do these awful things. but you will tire of it eventually, i promise you that!
2007-04-09 00:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said he never really cared for you or bought you anything, he obviously didn't love you. He loved your body and he was using you. He is just a horny guy who likes having sex and for now that's probably all he wants. The second he finds another girl, he'll probably start sleeping with her too, and he might not even tell you. Just be careful and you shouldn't even be friends with him, and especially not give him any more sex. It's time for you to look for a real man who will love you for who you are and treat you like a princess.
2007-04-09 00:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this type of question is on here at least twenty times a day.
So in the words of Dr. Phill " WHAT!!!! ARE YOU STUPID?"
You don't have sex with people you are not married to. That way you don't have to ask this question.
2007-04-09 00:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to make love to you without the relationship, that's a BIG NO NO ..... Say you can't do it because he'll just be using you for that.....
2007-04-09 00:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ganda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all he wants from you is sex i think you sould tell him strat that your over him and that your not interested and that there in no point in haveing sex with you because you are not in love with him like you were when you got together... you are better off with out him he sounds like a child treating you like crap there are better guys out there for you ........that will treat you right and with respect
2007-04-09 00:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no as he using u for sex
that all he wants
2007-04-09 00:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋