Ok, I got on birth control so my boyfriend and I could have sex more. Saturday was the day I could have sex and no worries. The problem is, we still haven't had sex. It has been a long time, since last Wednesday. And thats a long time for us. I have tried asking him about it, but he claims he is too tired or his legs hurt or something. Keep in mind he is in his early twenties. So I really don't know what is going on. I have given him some oral to try and get him in the mood, but still nothing. I am going crazy here. So, is he still interested in that aspect of our relationship?
2007-04-09 07:40:40 · 3 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there anything I should do to try and get him in the mood?
2007-04-09 07:42:44 · update #1
It sounds like you are having sex before you went on the birth control. He probably has a whole lot to do with him not feeling comfortable with the birth control as a foolproof method. Asking what he liked to have sex and use a condom. If he jumps at that thought and it sounds like fear may be something do with pregnancy... is any reason to worry about STDs of any kind? Were you sexually active before you met him and now that he's going to jump in your pool is gotten overly concerned?
I don't think he's cheating or anything like that that doesn't seem to make any sense. It was a girl you're having sex with with a condom and now she's been let you know bareback with protection.... hey I'm not leaving her.... I am marking the calendar when I can jump on that.
Try going back to your old birth-control methods and see if he responds. If not then you need to sit and talk with him and asking what is bothering him... did he know ahead of time that you are going on the birth control pill or shot? If not the look at what you did as some sort of a commitment and he doesn't want it?
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2007-04-11 21:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bright side he is dealing with some issues... chances are thou being a male, this guy has something on the side... thats not standard straite male behavior... sorry to say, the oral was all that was needed... I'd be worried about his fedility...
2007-04-10 10:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 10:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋