my husband is a corprate millionare and he tells me i dont need to work but iam really bored we have a large house and 3 children 1 a toddler and hes a handful what should i do
iam 28 years old my husband is 56 but he looks good for his age and calls me his trophy wife but iam bored
2007-04-09 07:12:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have another on the way
2007-04-09 07:14:21 · update #1
no i dont want to leave them i love them but i need some time to myself
2007-04-09 07:23:10 · update #2
me and my husband donate lots of money to charity...and we adopted our oldest son, he's 10 and a sweetie
2007-04-09 07:31:00 · update #3
No doubt on the homeschool!
2007-04-09 07:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by JoelMacDad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what, go work outside in the community. Something part-time to just get you out of the house and away from being a mom for a few hours a day. Since you don't need the money, there is no point of working for pay. There are plenty of shelters or other places that need volunteers to help them pass out things/food. Or go to college part-time or full-time online. You just need a project to look forward to everyday besides waking up to be mommie. Find something really productive that has nothing to do with your family, and you will not be so bored anymore. Good luck!!
2007-04-09 07:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't need the money you don't need to work at a paying job that requires you to be there certain times, why not volunteer at various places. Advertise or by word of mouth find a qualified nanny or local teen (make sure they have been certified in a safe sitter course and all should be well) and then decide what causes you would like to donate your time to (this could also serve your husband well for good will for his name). You could volunteer at the library (you could do all sorts of things, but one is read to the blind). You could volunteer at the local animal shelter, or hospital, or hospice.
You could volunteer at the local Red Cross chapter in your area. Go online and find different causes that interest you and then find a chapter in your area and find out what their needs are and if you are able to meet them.
You could also join a local book club at the library or local book store (this would get you out of the house and with other people with similar interests but won't require a high energy level for someone with young children).
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-04-09 07:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your husband is a multi-millionaire, get a opare(sp?) or nanny to help watch all your kids. Get into school, maybe even just online if you don't already have a degree. Get into crafts and projects that you and your kids could have fun in. Be part of your neighborhood and town. People in your situation can always help people. Know this and help. People need you. You may find helping people makes you feel great and takes away all the boredom you have. Start a project taking pictures of your kids, make a scrap book of this, for each one of them. They will cherish this their whole lives. Remember to have "adult" time. It is important that you get time with other adults. Join a gym and have a group of girlfriends that you go with to stay in shape and get your pregnancy weight off, after this next one. Have one night a week you go out with adult friends without the kids. The happier you are the happier your kids and your relationship with your husband will be.
2007-04-09 07:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ciel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a really good hobby.
Like a sport, or start a club, teach on line courses.
I would give anything to be able to stay at home. I work a crappy 40 hour a week job, and I have so many ideas of small business' that I would give anything to be able to stay home and get them going. But I don't have a rich husband or any credit. So you might just want to count your blessings and be glad for what you have.
2007-04-09 07:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am a stay at home mom of 2 boys ages 3ys and 9mons. I get bored just as well...don't let people run your life...try getting your kids into sports so you can cheer them on or in to some type of scouts thing. Start a play date with other moms and meet like at a park or at eachothers houses. I go to church and I'm in Relay For Life along with Bible study. It keeps me busy along with doing things around the house.
2007-04-09 07:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by mimi jeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a stay at home mom. I do Purse Parties. I mainly do it b/c it gets me around other women and is actually fun for me. We do not really need the money, but it's also nice to have the extra cash that I actually made!
2007-04-09 09:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming this isn't completely bogus (because it definitely comes across that way) find a hobby...hire a sitter and go find something for you to do...join a civic organization, do volunteer work, take classes in things that interest you.
People are typically only bored when they choose to be bored.
2007-04-09 07:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about doing something from home like Tupperware parties or romance parties. even though you don't have to work it would give you something to do but still allow you time to be a stay at home mom. or i'm sure you could find other mom's with kids your age and you guys could have play dates so it would be fun for the kids and mom's
2007-04-09 07:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite friends over that have toddlers for a play date that way you can bake some cookies make sandwhiches for lunch and make some fresh sqeezed lemonade!
2007-04-09 07:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by razzles07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, what should you do? You married him and have 3 kids. What about them? Are you considering bailing out on everyone because you're bored? Looks like "gold diggin' didn't work as well as you thought it would.
2007-04-09 07:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋