2 guys:one i have really good chemistry with i like his personality but im not soo attracted to him im not shallow so i look past flaws pyhsically we went out b4 and it didnt work it was long distance and i nvr saw him he made empty promises and i always waited around he always promised to come see me but something would always come up we went out for a month not a long time i know but we had liked each other for a few monthes b4 that ...then there is a guy i have known and had a huge history with since i was 7 im 16 thats about 9 years we're involved we nvr had sex but we almost have and we did alot of other things i have feelings for him but i liek him for all da wrong reasons i cant find myself to b in love with him cuz its all to sexual i want him it lust but i noe in my heart wen we both mature and get past a pysical thing we will have something real i believ he is the right one and teh other guy is wrong but i like the rite 1 for the wrong reasons vice versa wat do i do advice!!
2007-04-09 07:23:16 · 1 answers · asked by gottaloveme =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your confusing yourself because you havn't fully appriciate what makes a best-friends into lovers... understand it is only the sex thing.... keep in mind that behind any deep fullfilling relationship there is a friendship at its core. So unless all you've ever done is talk about sex with that one guy for 7 years I would call it primary sexual attraction... but then again I'm not there to say one way or another... the other guy just seems like your using him to run away from this other guy.... truth be told.... history is one of the most powerful elements in a relationship, if you don't believe me see what cheating does... but understand that love is a word for the sum feelings we have for an entity. So realize anything that could be called a feeling is love be it anger, disgust, or even happiness..... so don't confuse yourself by thinking that you love someone more then another... its more about the truth surronding the relationship thats going to determine how important it is in you life....
2007-04-09 10:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋