me and my boyfriend have been together a year, I am his first relationship, so he want to have a break to experience other girls, he says he love me, and knows he will come back, should I think anything of it, am I waisting my time with him?
2007-04-09 07:09:58 · 6 answers · asked by amanda d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being the first is always hard. But if you loved him the way you should then believe he is going to come back . My favorite quote '' He may wonder off in the streets during the day but he is going to always come home''
2007-04-09 07:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lonely Girl!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you seem to be taking it well. Since you have been dating for a year, clearly you have some sort of connection with him, and him with you. For as much as it might hurt, it sounds like he A) has already met another girl that he finds interesting (a lot of guys wont leave what they got until something better has already come along)
B) He has honestly been doing some soul searching and realizes that he doesnt want to be so settled so young.
personally, I would assume the first option. It is a possibility he will come back, because you and him have built up a connection that he wont find so easily with someone else. But if I were you, go along with it. It will be hard, but go out and do your own thing. Seriously, the second he finds out that you are seeing other people as well, the ball will probably be in your court as to whether or not your want HIM back. Good luck.
2007-04-09 07:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation before. we were each others first for everything, first kiss, first sexual experience,and first love.he always told me he loved me and that he would never hurt me and all this other crap. then after nine months he said he needed a break but he would always be there for me and that we would probably get back together later. well this all that hurt me so bad. i waited around for him. he would always change his mind. one week he would be all like i love you and he would say that we would probably be getting back together soon. then the next week he would hardly look at me and he wouldnt talk to me. he led me on like that for a while, always getting my hopes up. but after 7 months and many many tears, i finally realized that i deserved way better. and now i couldnt be happier i don't have any feelings for him at all. i was blind and stupid for letting him walk all over me but i've gained a lot from it all .
2007-04-09 07:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal, and I know it hurts. How can he know what he wants when you're all he has ever had? Experience is what helps us to find out what we are looking for. But you don't have to put up with that. You two may not be right for each other. His choice to see other people may damage the relationship beyond repair, and you need to let him know that.
2007-04-09 07:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by RuaLinnet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old I need a break story. Usually it's the girl. They normally don't come back!
2007-04-09 07:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say GOOD BYE...you should date around. I suspect you are both young and have to discover different people & have different experiences. Obviously, he's not ready for marriage. Be greatful you guys are single and this is happeneing now as opposed to if you were married to him.
2007-04-09 07:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋