my main fear is my man cheating on my with a light skin black girl i am a light skin hispanic with straight hair by the way... do i sound racist??? the thing that scares me is the hair and they are dominant?? why do u think it scares me ?? and him cheating on me with other races doesnt?? please dont get mad i just wanna get over my fear
2007-04-09 06:48:47 · 31 answers · asked by veronica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
let it go, just love your man.
2007-04-09 06:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i understanf the fear of being cheated on but the particulars are what bothers me. y not a white girl that pops x and has a tattoo on her back? if u have no evidence of a black girl that he has eyes on then why would u pick this type of female for ur man? u have some serious issues. r u gonna walk around pointing out every lite skinned black woman and accuse him of wamting her? this should be an interesting marriage.
2007-04-09 13:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RALPHY!!!!! You have to be at least 70+ years old. All of your questions and comments are pathetically corny! You even remembered way back when the first whites only sign was put up on a drinking fountain and I believe you were 40 then. Superfly? Even my young self knows he didn't have an afro. C'mon Ralphy, I expect more from the elderly. Maybe you can work on your spelling, before you get totally senile! Peace out my brotha!
2016-05-21 00:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound racist..... maybe it's something that's happened in the past or maybe you're just intimitated by light skinned black girls. If you trust him then you shouldn't worry.
You think light skinned chicks are dominant? If you have trust then you shouldn't worry. If you know that he wont cheat on you.
2007-04-09 06:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have low confidence, and a man does not want a woman that is always thinking about the other woman. Im a light skinned black woman, why does it have to be us? It could be any other race! Good Luck!
2007-04-09 06:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm...yah sounds odd that it just one particular type of person in particular type of race. Did a previous bf cheat on you with a light skinned black girl...if so you are probably just bring that into the current relationship. Try to trust you bf.
2007-04-09 06:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very racist. I can't believe a pepper belly like you could even be remotely kind to a jungle bunny. You should probably bust a cap into your cholo tat jobless man. Lets not even get started on who is dominant cause we all know it's "the man". whats with fear of a nappy a** weave, I say grab the ho and slap that bi*&*.
2007-04-09 07:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you do sound racist. This question is really about the girl. it scares you because you are racist. You know the answer about the hair. GO GET A LIFE!!!!
2007-04-09 08:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Acorn barnacle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you dont trust him, no you dont sound racist, you sound like a light skinned black girl you know/knew has something you dont or something youre man likes..If you dont have trust you REALLY have absolutely nothing
2007-04-09 06:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get help, because you give no good reason why you think this man is cheating on you. You did not mention "catching" him or anything solid like that....so I think you really need to talk to someone and get some counseling. Good luck
2007-04-09 06:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do sound racist...although I'm sure some would agree even in this day and age. If you are really worried, it could really end up hurting your relationship. Go seek counseling ASAP.
2007-04-09 07:14:22 · answer #11 · answered by Yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋