So I met this girl and went out with her for a few days, i later found out that she on a break with her bf who by the way is a dick to her and everybody says he's hidious. Anyway, He was the one who wanted the break, i got to kiss her but the very next day they got back together, she says shes confused, and i know she's just obsessed and used to the same guy, they've been together for 2 years, and i also know that girl is crazy about me, she likes me a LOT and i mean a LOT, but the obsession for that guy has her tied up, and i would fight for her, but i dont really know how to fight something like that and i really don't want to lose her because she's a great girl and deserves a lot better, i really love spending time with her and just hugging her and kissing her. how can i win her over that obsession, is it possible? or should just stay away from her and get over it and let that guy keep treating her bad?
2007-04-09 06:11:42 · 1 answers · asked by jextreme_22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Frist thing would be to tell her that and lead into the fact that you care enough to be there for her towards some sort of future. Chances are thats what he has that you don't that makes her obessesed. She might really like you but until you show it to that level she most likly doesn't trust the relationship to go any were. So usually your word and your actions are there to win her over. Start by saying what you saying here and if that doesn't work, nothing well, let her learn her own lessons, atleast you can say you tried. But between you and me, telling her the truth like that gets them almost all of the time. Unless she is just that thick headed....
2007-04-10 04:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋