has anyone done that?
2007-04-09 06:21:50 · 26 answers · asked by jj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say it all depends on how old you are, what you have been through in life, etc. If I met my first true love when I was in my 20's and he felt the same way, of course I would marry him! However, there are so many teenagers with 1st loves, and I would NOT recommend them getting married, unless they wait until after they are 21 to make sure they still consider the person a real love!
2007-04-09 06:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people do that, I didn't. I was only 17 then, well from 17-21. And if I would of married him then (he asked I said we were to young), then I'd of went through a divorce, or lived a life I wasn't happy in. I think that people should wait until they are in their mid 20's give yourself time to cut loose and have fun and live a little. I was devastated when my first love and I broke up, I was for years, but now I am grateful that I didn't marry him. I've ran into him and he's in a place I don't want to be around, its kinda sad, but my life has been a journey and I have found out a lot about myself, I'm happy, I've got a great life. I don't think I would have those things if I'd of gotten married back then.
2007-04-09 13:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sun R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should marry the person that you feel is the right one. If it is your first love I don't think that should be a deciding factor in whether or not to spend the rest of your life with them. I don't believe that you have to shop around or sleep around for that matter to make sure you have made the right decision. A friend of mine from high school dated her first love through out high school and married him right after graduation. That was almost 7 years ago and they have 2 beautiful children and are extremely happy. I believe that most of the time when we are younger we think we are in love an really we are in lust or infatuation. So if you first love turns out to be your forever love I think you should marry them and not think twice.
2007-04-09 13:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by ashwa83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant say that I believe in marrying your first love unless they are your true love. I am marrying my first love but we have dated around for years and decided that we still wanted to be with eachother but he is my true love . But every situation is different. Some peoples first love will be there only love.
2007-04-09 13:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in marrying him, if it feels right but I think it is better to have dated a few other people too.
You don't want to be to naive or dependant on the poor guy. You need to be worldywise.
If you have nether been with anyone else then it will be quite easy to take advantage of you!
I'm sorry if it sounded miserable, GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-04-09 13:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell u the truth its truly a really hard question to answer. but if he really loves and you personally sees it, yes you should marry him even though hes your first love. but sometimes it do depend on how long you have been with him. and then to if you marry him after a few years he might not treat you right. but you have to go for what you think.
2007-04-09 13:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by donyelle a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... no...You are too young when you fall in love for the first time and still have to build yourself as a person. And you need to explore. I know a few people that did get married to their first loves...but...they're all divorced now.
2007-04-09 13:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. I was 15 when I met him and started dating him. 22 when I married him. We ended up divorced, but he came back after being gone less then a year. We had, and still do have our problems, but fact is he is my one true love. And treats me better now then before. Now he knows what its like to be with someone other than his true love.
Now do I recommend it? Only after you have dated others in between your first love and your marriage to them, I recommend dating others only because if you don't after time one of the two will start to wonder what it is like to be with someone else and in the end the other gets hurt because the curiosity got the best of them.
2007-04-09 13:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do cuz usually once you loved someone once you dont want to let them go otherwise you think you'll never find someone to replace that person. you think that anyone next wont be good enough as them unless the relationship was short. i still would like to get back my first love and marry her cuz i wanted to but she was impatient and left me for another. somehow we talk and are very good friends. there is nothing i still wouldnt do 4 her even though we arent 2gether anymore
2007-04-09 13:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just all depends on the relationship and the people involved. Personally, i'm glad i didn't marry my first serious boyfriend. Or my second, for that matter. However, i am my fiance's first romantic relationship ever. So i like i said, it depends on the situation and the people.
2007-04-09 13:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by katskradle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋