We have been together for two years now and we have a child together and are getting married this year. Lately he has an attitude with me over nothing. And says sometimes he feels hate for me but others says he loves me. I don't know what to do to change this, he wasn't always like this. Just for about 3 months now. Anyone been through this before? Why? What is wrong? I have tried talking to him and get nowhere.
2007-04-09 06:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by tls 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, in a situation like this, you're going to have to put your foot down and ask him what the problem is. If you're going to get married and yet he's acting like this, you have a right to know what the problem is. He may just be really nervous, you know? But that doesn't justify his behavior towards you and things not getting resolved. Good luck!
2007-04-09 06:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be several reasons - after two years a relationship may become "stale" - assess your current routine with how the two of you behaved while you were happier. Stress over the wedding could be a factor. Having children is another challenge couples face - it's hard to keep the spontenaity & fun & ust in a relationship when children are a focus. When he says he "hates you" - he may mean that he hate how things have become and how your relationship is not the priority anymore. Take a good look at how things were when they were good and find the missing pieces - collect that information together and try to make changes that bring back the good things. Depending on if you are able, try and postpone the wedding and explain that irregardless of embarrassment - you are putting your foot down to be sure the relationship is good again before both of you make a tragic mistake!
2007-04-09 13:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bout your situation but I got a lil deja-vu from reading over it. My man became mean and all like that a few years ago, he is still a time bomb waiting to go off till this day over the tiniest of things. I've moved away. He is probably cheating on you sorry to say, mine was. Kick him to the curb NOW- waiting will only make it harder (trust me on that one) u and ur child deserve a Man/Father- not a lil' boy that cannot be faithful to the mother of his child- period. Sounds like he needs to step up and realize that being a husband/father does not mean doing whatever and hiding it. He isn't only cheating on you, he is on ur child as well. Good Luck!!
2007-04-09 13:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKatKarin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not about to walk around on egg shells for him or anyone else. Unless he gets his **** together, he's out for good.
2007-04-09 13:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably screwing around... men act real simple when getting their dick wet with some other *****,so act real simple too. when he leaves for work, pack you **** and leave and leave a vibrator in the bed. "now you can have your attitude and whatever ***** your sticking and the vibrator and i can move on" write that and move on to another man.
2007-04-09 13:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating with another women, and HATES the idea that he has to stay with you and cant be with her all the time. So everytime he is around you, he hates you. What he should do is divorce you. But he is too scared to lose everything he has in divorce. Because women get everything in divorce. But yes... He hates you.
2007-04-09 13:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋